Have you ever forgiven someone completely - no making amends, no restoration, no asking for promises to do better, just forgave him/her unconditionally? How did it make you feel? How did it make him/her feel?
by 
OnceBitten
ANSWERS: 4
-
yes. my boyfreind cheated on me... i always thought if he did that, i would never be able to look at him again... but on night, he called me at 1:35 in the morning, scared to death he was going to lose me... he told me he cheated on me, but the only thing i could think was i'm so glad i still have you... he said "i know you may never forgive me..." and i cut him off saying "i already have". he felt dirty, unworthy, but so thankful... i didn't ask him to do better. i didn't have to. he was so thankful... he said most girls would've spat in his face. he proposed two days later when he next saw me. we've been so happy, and open, i never thought we would get to that point. i've never been the forgiving type, and being able to forgive him felt strange, but so easy. i knew i should be mad, but instead, i was so grateful to still have him. being able to find that forgiveness within myself was incredible. it's a gift you need to embrace with everything you've got. don't let people take advantage of you, but don't be afraid to let things go. you won't regret it.
-
To tell the truth i can't remember ever doing that myself. It would kind of depend on who the person was and what they did but I'm stubborn and would need an apology. lol
-
Yes, I dont forgive people for them, I do it for myself, I am not going to let hate control my life, because of something they did.
-
Yes I have. That is unconditional love. And that feels.... perfect.
Spicy Hot RELATED QUESTIONS
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC