ANSWERS: 4
  • Is he saving any money-if not you might suggest he start. If's he's being responsable with his money and can still travel I see nothing wrong with his paying you way. He obviously wants you along, traveling alone has its drawbacks and it doesn't cost twice as much for two people to travel. You might pay for a meal or some souveniers some time but don't strain yourself financially trying to keep be fair-take an "each according to his abilities" approach. Enjoy-where does he/you go?
  • God I wish me GF felt guily when spending my money. I have the opposite problem w/her...I hope he sees that! you're a keeper!
  • i actually have the same problem. my boyfriend always wants to buy me things. whether its my birthday or just a regular day he wants to spend his money on me. sometimes he goes over board but its hard to stop him. when i ask him why he wants to buy me things he just says that its cuz he loves me. i can understand what he means cuz i want to buy him things too, but sometimes its too much. i know its hard to accept gifts that cost more than your paycheck but if your boyfriend feels the same way mine does, then he buys you things cuz you're important to him and he only wants you to be happy. he enjoys the look on your face when you accept his gifts, but he probably enjoys the feeling of you accepting his gifts even more. that's how much you mean to him.
  • I say enjoy yourself. It is not that big a deal to let him pay. Who gave you a negative. I tried to bring you back. I think it's a valid question...

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