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This is going to sound harsh. There is no relationship without trust. Please trust me telling you that trust is hard to come by when you have already been burned by that person. I have a problem with this because I have to trust my partner because he is my best friend and if I can't trust him than I have noone. The sucky part is he lied, that is bad,and it will probably only get worse. The ok part is that it was only porn and at least he didn't cheat on you. He may just be embarrased and honestly who wants to admit to the person they are supposed to love that they are finding other females attractive? It's kind of a blow to us women. If this is an isolated occurence I would let it slide, but warn him the next time you won't be so understanding!
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Ans what is it about your bf watching porn that really bothers you? If this is his only defect, and he is otherwise perfect, consider letting this one slide. Also, it's a very good idea not to ask for a promise you know may be easily broken. Puts a lot of burden on the other party. You can't trust him? What do you mean. You don't trust yourself for trusting him?
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If he's being honest with you that he wants to end this addiction, and trust me if he's lying about it it's an addiction, and you're willing you need to go to couples' couciling with a counciler that specializes in this. However, as you've lost your trust in him I would say it's best to cut your loses and just move on. After all once the trust is gone it's pretty hard to rebuild a relationship. I know if I caught my boyfriend looking at it I'd be gone with no regrets.
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if he's not looking at it ALL the time, then why make it a big deal? It's healthy to masturbate and to fantasize. If he shows you that he loves you, having this one small vice won't destroy the relationship, rather, your disallowing him to view it may create the wedge that becomes the problem.
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