I was abusied emotionally and physically as a kid and i still am now as a young adult. ive never learned how to deal with this so thats why i started cutting myself. i dont know how to quit it. can someone please help me before i end up killing myself?
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Contact your local crisis center immediately! You need professional help as soon as possible. If you can't call your local crisis center ( or some reasonable alternative ), see a school guidance counselor, a local doctor, a minister, or some other responsible adult you feel you can trust. Kaitlyn ... do this as soon as possible! You are in difficulties not because of anything YOU did, but because of things someone ELSE did TO you. You are in NO way to blame, and there are people out there who will help you reclaim your own life.
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Cutting yourself is a way for you to control pain since you can't control the other physical pain you endure. You need to seek help from someone trustworthy that won't hurt you any more than you already are. It's a very serious issue and you have to get to the root of the problem in order to fix it. Counseling is very helpful and you should always remember that you deserve to be happy and healthy! Life is too short to allow these things to continue! Find a way to get away from the person abusing you. And don't let them win by abusing yourself. Good luck!
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tell someone about the physically, and get over the emotionally (if ur like me, the last bit will go away really quickly). the next time you are physically abused, run as far away from the person of whom is doint the abusing, and call 911. btw- DO NOT kill yourself. if you do, there is no way to come back. my cousin shot herself in the head, and i still havent got over the pain. yes, you might get sent to a foster home, but that one will be better than your current home (if it is the people residing in your home of whom is doing the abusing). hopefully.
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Pain can become an addiction... I've known it myself as a teenager. You start doing these things because you need help, but you go on with this because you kind of size the physical pain to the moral one which is less visible and therefore less accessible to others and to yourself... I think you should find someone to talk to about it. Your behaviour usually covers up for some deeper concerns and I think this is only when you'll have found some solutions to your questions/problems that the 'covering' behaviour will end... Take care of yourself!!!
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