Have you ever just wanted to beat the shit out of your teenage kids for being unruly? Did you? How did you handle it? I am havign a hard time right now w/ my 15 y/o son & all I feel is rage & pain.
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snakelover
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it's up to you but as a 21 guy i can tell you that my parents smacked me when i was little(which i prob deseved coz i was a right little bastard),but if they'ed tried it when i was 15 i'd of hit them back it's up 2 you but once you cross the line you cant go back.good luck with your kids x x
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Define unruly?
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Ever sent him to boot camp?
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im 17 and i want to beat the shit out of my teenaged kids
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yes, i have felt like it, but ya can't!...sometimes it just helps to talk to someone about it, maybe he needs counsiling. or maybe you need to get somethin for strss lol, this too shall pass....
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Please ont get mad at what I'm tryin to say comming from some of the same things I was wanting people around me to know I was hurting I was cryin out fo rattention and alot of the time kids act out in a bad way to get the attention they are asking for rather it's good or bad. My mother was never a mother and could've gave 2 cares less about me and never got the time of day from her,now she's not in my life. PLEASE dont give up on your kids,try aking questions insted of "RAGE" if you act in rage and say you wabt to beat them that does more damage to them later in life . How you treat your kids is likley how they treat thiers. I left home at 16 because that is all I heard from my mom is how much she'd like to beat me . Please ask questions and try not to feel all the rage and anger beacuse at the end of the day the are still your children who you gave birth to and who you should love nomatter what they do , let them make thier own mistakes and be there to pick up the mess afterwords
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Snakelover, Astrology would be my answer to you. Through it you could come to know your teenager better than what they know themself. It's a sneaky tool for a parent to use but I have found the information to be invaluable and insightful. I use it myself with my 3 young sons, the oldest being 13 and I am confident in saying that I have no doubt that they will each grow to be wonderful contributors to the positive progression of humanity. Be warned though, Astrology is not something that should be taken lightly. You should tread carefully when delving into anything which is of an occult nature but when you master it, you are the master of your own domain, and my children fit that catagory. Good luck Snakelover and I respect you for posing such a question in order to bring your son closer to respecting you.
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can i ask u one question ok what will u find after beating your own kid....nothing obviously.. execpt his stubborness and he will be more rude over you...sit and talk to him and tell him show him how much you love him make him realise everythng you do for him from his childhood to his teenager tell him you love him more than your life and when he behave like this you want to die bcoz you live for him only you live for your kids...by love even animals can be your friend by hate or fighting their will be only querral at ur house nothing else.so love him and give him more time so that he bcome more closer..
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