ANSWERS: 7
  • He is an idiot. Same as my cheating (ex)wife who insists it was my fault.
  • Why are you getting caught up in who is right and who is wrong about this? If he has so little remorse about it then what exactly is there left to argue about?
  • Because their cornered when you accuse them initially. They think they can shift the blame elsewhere rather than confess.
  • It's not only men women do it as well. It's because it's easier to cast blame on someone else for your actions than to admit you're a lowlife scumbag for doing what you did and breaking the heart of the person you were supposed to love and cherish and have comitted your life to. Cheaters rarely ever acknowledge that what they did is wrong. They will come up with a million and one excuses to justify their selfish thoughtless actions and when they can't justify them anymore they resort to blaming others for their lowlife behavior.
  • Because men are pigs.
  • Who cares? The bigger point is why the heck are you still with him?
  • He is clearly immature and unable to take responsibility for his wrong doing. This is not your problem. Your problem lies in wanting, still, to believe him. He KNOWS he was wrong and has been caught...don't expect an admission. He believes, and perhaps with reason, that if he denies it he will successfully plant doubt in your mind. Then, if you are typical, you will be persuaded to give him the benefit of that doubt. Classic manipulation. You have just learned something about this man. Make a decision. You want more of this....or not?

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