Would you date a person who was expecting a baby with their ex?
Ladies: Would you date a man who was expecting a baby with his ex?
Men: Would you date a woman who was expecting a baby with her ex?
(let's assume you single for this)
by 
orderandlaw
ANSWERS: 15
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No thanks. A person who impregnates someone outside of marriage is not the kind of person who has the set of values I would look for in a partner. I view dating as the "interview" of a potential marriage mate. A person like this would be of zero interest to me.
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I did date a girl who was pregnant from another guy. They were not together anymore. We're not together anymore either. Would I ever do it again? Only if it were the very same girl that I dated. I developed a very strong emotional bond with her. It was a good learning experience. I would never do it again.
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yes if i was older than i am now and loved that person i would date her because she would need help and that would be more important to me than the statusquo
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I would not. I don't have the strength to get myself mixed up with something like that.
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it depends how serious your relationship is. are you ready to carry on the baggage of a baby that isnt yours? would you beable to cope? just have a think about it, because only you can answer that question
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I am currently in this situation. He was my childhood crush and my older over protective cousin's best friend. Needless to say our dating only created chaos. We weren't allowed to date so we snuck and did it anyway, we were caught and I was placed under extreme lockdown. I didn't want to continue putting him through this so I told him it would be ok if he found someone else. For two years I didn't see or hear from him. One day I go on myspace and find him and his new girlfriend. I decide to say hello anyway. Long story short he and I would've still been together had it not been for my familys meddling. He and the new girl have serious issues, he broke up with her and put her out. Two days later she calls him and tells him she's pregnant. She is currently 4 months and is threatening to take him to the cleaners should he ever leave her. He and I are in love, but he feels obligated to stay with her. He is the sole provider, she doesn't work. I have kept a close relationship with his family but now that she's pregnant their dislike of her is almost nonexistant. My family refuses to acknowledge us as a couple.
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(female point of view) only for fun, not seriously because i don't want children or a "baby's mother/constant ex" in my life
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I am female and my answer is ............NO THANK YOU
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Probably not. If I knew him, and already had feelings for him then I *may* possibly go on a date with him (definitely not if I had only recently met him). I need to be with somebody who has no responsibilities and commitments, and a father can't provide that.
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no, don't want or need the drama.
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As a woman...no. A baby is too much excess baggage. And the mother, if she wants her child to know its father, could be a constant source of distractions and demands (financially and emotionally). That would put a strain on your relationship with him. I wouldn't even accept a first date. That could lead to a second one, then more, then love, then marriage, and WOW! Now you really have a problem or two or three. Really. Not a good idea/
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I WOULD ONLY DATE A PERSON IF THERE PREGNENT PARTNER WAS NO LONGER INTERESTED IN HIM OR I LOVED HIM. BUT I WOULDNT STOP THAT MAN FROM SEEING HIS CHILD.
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No, unless i really, seriously loved him. But even then, seeing his child would be painful, because i'd keep thinking things like "why couldn't that be OUR child?". I also think a bit of jealousy would be involved too, in thinking he'd made love to another woman.
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No i wouldnt. i wouldnt want no baby mama drama!
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I am female and I can state without a doubt in my mind that I would not date a man that was expecting a baby with his ex. When I was single one of the first questions I asked the person that asked me out is if they had children. I just did not want to be bothered with the hassles of a man who had a family made or in the making.
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