How would I explain my rape fantasy to my fiancee without making it sound weird? I wanna tell him that I'd love to experiment with a "mock rape" roleplay..how would I bring it up?
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Jessica
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carefully. i told my man about mine when i was drunk, and he was really freaked out... (best to do it sober) plan out what your going to say first, and make sure he understands that its a fantasy. good luck!
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G'day Jessica, Thank you for your question. I would suggest warming up with a roleplay that would suggest it such as pirate and wench. Regards
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I am so glad you asked this question. I wasn't sure how to ask without sounding... well, you know... I certainly be watching this topic for more ideas!
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I told my ex that I like being held down and maybe have a little force used. I liked feeling helpless. He caught on quick. Best to have a safe word though, just in case your no really does mean no.
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it is a common fantasy......just tell him.alternatively..next time he slides into you..tell him his brother is bigger 'down below'
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definately do it carefully. my girlfriend told me too early on and it sort of F**ked me up and made me worry wether or not i could trust her. I thought there was something wrong with her.
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I used to date a guy so dominating in bed and he often held me down and told me to shutup or cover my mouth and pin me down, I never requested it but found it really hot. When I started seeing someone new, when we were getting down I just said "tell me to shutup" and he totally took the cue he covered my mouth and said it repeatedly "shut the f*** up" and even called me a slut which was unexpected from him but fine with me. Most people just get the fact people have all types of fantasies, a guy might not think yours is wierd but act that way because he feels afraid of doing it just as if you would fear doing something he may request.
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Many women share your fantasy, some are lucky enough to have someone who will indulge them, others are still waiting and hoping. There a numerous websites that cater to this; perhaps watching some with him will give him the idea about your desires. Natashaflade.com is a website by a couple who turned their rape fantasies into a profitable venture. Try bondagedirectory.com for the most listings of bondage-related rape scenarios. I'll be willing to bet that just checking some of them out with him will provide the opportunity you seek. On the other hand, if being tied up for a mock rape isn't exactly what you had in mind, then check out some of the free on-line fictional sites that have stories about rape-by-force. Of course, simulated force between consenting persons is the key. Good luck. Your fiancee is luckier than he knows.
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Let him catch you watching a video or pictures of something like that and watch his reaction. If he doesn't like it there won't be much you can do but if he seems ok with it just explain to him how much it turns you on and offer to try it sometime.
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depending on how "active" your sex life is together bring it up gradually while your doing something else sexual.... tell him you like him to be in charge and yoiu want him to boss you around in bed... if he likes that approach and you have some good aggressive sex then its an easier transition to tell him of your fantasy
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Just ask him if he'd like to add a little something diffrent to your foreplay, if he agree's, then tell him what you'd like..also let him tell you if he has anything. Just be open-minded and considerate :)
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