ANSWERS: 7
  • well if you dont know him well enough to know the difference and he's already showing his temper than he's probably abusive
  • If he sleeps nude, get a towel, wet the end, and pop him like a bull whip in his ding-ding! You will figure out all three of those at once!! For the threshold portion just sit and see how long he bitches at you for it...Viola!!
  • What is the consequence of crossing that line?
  • Abusive: Are you scared for your physical/mental safety? Does he become physically violent? Is he controlling? Quick Temper: Gets mad if the batteries in the remote are dead. Long threshold blah blah blah somehow your fault: I have a long, long fuse myself. And there are certain things that will tick me off and jump from that far off end to right next to the stick of dynamite. But it is the individual's responsibility to control their anger and their emotions. Do not assume that it's your fault.
  • After reading your account, the best advice i have is to stop listening to the girls telling you he is a dangerous man. If you expect to go through life never being yelled at by your man, you're in a for life full of heartache and break-up. How can you tell if he is abusive? He already answered your question. He got angry and then he walked away. he cooled down and then he apologised and wanted to talk about it. NOT abusive behaviour.
  • Usually by the frequency of those "crossing the line" events and the severity of the reaction.
  • In his dealings with other people, does he take responsibility for what happens? For how he feels? Does he think he reacts as he does only because other people are wrong or stupid? What's he normally like when he's driving? Aggressive? Quick to blame other drivers? Gives way to others at times, stops to let them into traffic? These things may sound petty. But it's the everyday stuff and the everyday frustrations that we all go through. But it's how as individuals we deal with them. People will tell you who they are, if you take the time to observe them.

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