My boyfriend had to kiss another girl in his college play, i sometimes still get jelous and insicure when I think about it, I know i am not ugly and that he wants me but how do I avoid these feelings in the future is he does make it?
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you mean if he makes it big time like a movie star?well i would just see who he is spending his money on...and really if he loves you he probably is thinking of you and his future and how kissing a girl not so attractive will benifit you both in the long run so think positive
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Just think of it as part of his job. You wouldnt get jealous if he was flipping burgers and making sandwiches with a girl at a fast food restaraunt, because you know it doesnt mean anything. Kissing someone onstage is just part of what he does. I have had to do that and it didnt help when i had people bothering me about it. When you are on stage.. in front of people.. the last thing on that persons mind is who they are kissing. Just be happy in the fact that you have an awesome boyfriend who is a good actor and loves you. Good luck! ~+~
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First and foremost: I agree with the above posters: it was his job. Second, you shouldn't attribute it to anything about you. He is not cheating, it was part of the script and meant nothing. He is, after all, dating you and not his costar. You're the one he "comes home to" and the one he likes/loves. There is nothing to be insecure about. His kissing another girl was nothing to do about you or who you are. So no worries! My only concern is: if he does make it and has to kiss more girls for his job and you feel insecure now, how would you feel then? If you are not comfortable with your boyfriend and stage kisses that don't include you, then you might want to reevaluate your relationship. I'm guessing theatre is very important to him. There might have to be some sacrifices that you might need to make.
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It depends on the kiss...as a Christian, I could not passionately kiss a man who was not my husband, no matter if it meant losing a career in acting. In fact, a friend of mine did lose her career, because she would not do a bedroom scene. IMO that is harrassment, but how do you convince the law that people are being harrassed to do things they do not want to do, just because a director says they should. I mean, if your boss at Maccas told you to kiss a girl you worked with just to keep your job, you would be screaming. I think it is about time that all of us stood up to the directors and stopped them forcing young people into situations they don't want to do. A kiss is special. It should not be wasted.
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