How can I ask my boyfriend to keep going during oral sex? (I don't want to make him feel bad, and I am shy about talking dirty, but I don't orgasm simply by penetraition so my only other option is oral, but he stops too soon.)
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There's no special way... just push your shyness away and ask him. The key to great sex is communication from my opinion... tell your partner what you like and dont like.
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Say that's it I'm getting closer baby, keep licking that fucking pussy baby. I'm sure he will continue and then be very much more turned on. You really should investigate the G spot and Skene's gland to learn more about your won sexuality. you are missing out on some things. Just google them...;-). Oral sex is an art, it's more than just licking your clit. Sex is an art and art without technique is crude. But even crude has a place.
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As he starts to quit grab his head and push it back down there he will get the hint
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just stroke his head a bit, and keep hold of his head lol! (it makes it easier if hes got jug ears to hold on to) *_*
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I would ask why he keeps stopping. Let him know how you feel. My ex did the same to me.
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Definitely talk to him about it. Tell him how much you enjoy making him climax, and how awesome it would be if he would do that for you. He probably doesn't understand because men and women can be so different. Help him by being open, not accusatory, and by showing him what you need. If he's a good guy, he'll not only do it, he'll appreciate it!!
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As long as i keep my hand on his head, he figures he needs to stay there
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Well I would not recommend focusing in on the fact that he is not satisfying you through intercourse. Giving him the not so subtle hints you want more oral is good. Also you might tell him you like to finish before you start on other things. He is probably stopping so you can enjoy the intercourse.
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Just tell him quite open waht you expect him to do. It makes no sense if you don't tell him waht you want to have. Ad the easiest way to stop him to give to you what you like and need will beif you have him under your control by sitting with your full weight on his face and telling that you will only stand up when he has done his job as you like it. You should not be that shy with your needs and if he does not then look for a new boyfriend and tell him from the very first beginning what you expect him to do. Many males start giving oral service to a girl or woman and then after some time they get bored just at a moment when the girl or woman is about to get hot. If you sit on his face he must do what you like.
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if you feel shy to use naughty/dirty words, then use body language an dmonas. deep sighs and moans would give him the necessary encouragement and a little pressure from your hands on his head would be added motivator for him to continue licking you. htus without loosing yor shyness and without using dirty words, you can have your way ...
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