doesn't want to be with her. He says he loves me. I believe him. But the other day I was talking to one of my friends on the phone and he asked me out for coffee. I used to like this guy before I started dating my boyfriend. I fell like I was cheating on him just by even talking to the guy. And my boyfriend got really jealous. I don't know what to do.Should I break up with my boyfriend and try it with the other guy. Or should I wait to see what happens with my boyfriend and me. I will be moving out in two weeks. I really love him...HELP

Break up with your boyfriend and date someone who's available.Why waste time with someone who asks you to leave while trying to "work things out" with someone else?He sounds like a selfish @$$#@(#!

Sorry this answer may not be what you want to hear but it sounds to me like he's keeping you there just in case it doesn't work with his ex, it may be very difficult but I would say it's me or her I wouldn't be second choice. Go for a coffee with this guy it does not mean anything as long as you don't use him to make your boyfriend jealous as that would not be fair. Good luck!

First of all, it sounds like your BF is a dick. He's been married to and divorced this woman (since he wants to "give her a chance, HE divorced HER). He gets a new girlfriend, and then, apparently, still talks with his ex (You don't mention it, but why? They have kids together?) So why can HE talk to his ex, but you can't talk to a male friend? Sounds like he wants to "keep one on the wire" so if the other doesn't work out, he's got a "fall back" girlfriend. Why do YOU want to be relegated to THAT roll? (Love doesn't come into this... control does.) What happens if things don't work out THIS time, you move back, and in a year or so, she's back, maybe changed. Is he gonna do this again? Sounds like it. You make a commitment to a relationship, and you forget having a relationship with ANYONE in the past, past friendship. If he's asking you to move out, do you really expect that he's NOT gonna have sex with her? I don't see that NOT happening. I would have suggested that you dump him because of his jealousy (and obvious distrust) issues if that didn't change. But add in the "leave so I can try with my ex again, but stay committed to me why I do", and I say DUMP THE PUNK. Why are you willing to play second best to his ex? I know VERY few women who would do this (and very few guys if the genders were reversed - In fact, I can't think of ONE person). If I wasn't clear above, you deserve better than this guy. Go out with the other guy for coffee, and see if anything can develop there, and don't look back. Good Luck. ;-/