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  • This is a tough one and depends on what you are trying to achieve by being popular amongst them. If your intention is for the girls to honestly like who you are, then just be yourself. If your goal is to just attain the status of popular then you will have to create a persona that appeals to the crowd you wish to be "in" with and hope for the best. Having said that, I can tell you if there's one thing a truly nice girl with a real personality can't stand it's a fake. If you are just looking to score points with the ladies and couldn't care less about their personalities, then being a phony might cut it. I never understood why being popular was so important when I was in school. My attitude was "if you're nice to me, I will be nice to you". I despised cliques and just did my best to focus on my studies and spend time with family and close and trusted friends. Boyfriends were no exception to that rule. If you want to be popular amongst the girls at school be yourself, set yourself appart from other guys in positive ways. Be more polite, more sincere, more complimentary. Show that you take pride in yourself and your appearance. That pride and lack of phoniness will shine through and you will feel good about yourself and the girls will notice. It might not happen right away, but if you play your cards right you'll end up a winner. Try not to focus on the popularity game. Focus on your good qualities and use them to your advantage and try to work on things you would like to improve. I know I sound like a broken record or a really bad pep talk, but I can't say it enough. . .just be yourself and it will all work itself out.
  • I am a girl myself and I have this problem with guys. I studied in an all-girls college and now I'm doing my post-grad. I have been attracted to a guy for the past 3 months..He however, seems completely unaware of my existence. It did hurt me but now I know that he looks at me too. The key to being popular with anyone, I have learnt, is being confident of whatever you might speak about. You have to be fluent and your thought flow should be good. All this can be achieved by practice alone. Ask a few of your trustworthy friends to help you in this by speaking in front of them or you could talk to yourself when you're alone in your room and stand in front of a mirror and practise your facial expressions. Now being a girl, I can tell you, that a clean, well groomed man who is chivalrous, calm and humourous is attractive. Now not everybody has these qualities, but they're no so difficult that you cannot develop them. And don't always look for a girlfriend in every girl..she may not want that. So try figuring out her needs. And while you're in school, remember that knowledge is a powerful tool that can make anybody magnetic. So be academically inclined..showing interest in studies and extra-curriculum. But also, try to be the person who you really are. Lastly, a good signature fragrance(I recommend Davidoff's Cool Water for Men) is immensely essential. All the best!!!!!!
  • Just try to talk to girls and pay attention to them--we love the attention. try talking to some girls you sit next to in class or go to a school sporting event and try to meet girls there. just be friendly and be yourself (posers are highly frowned upon). use what you got; if you are funny, tell a joke or comment on how lame your math teacher is, if you are smart, get together a study group before the big test, if your a jock, ask if they came to the big game.
  • well as a girl i like it when guys casually come up and just talk to you. say hey im w.e name and u are? and stuff like that but dont freak her out, dont be like hey baby u want to dance i never talked to a guy again that did that. and tell a girl that shes very good lookin but dont over exaderate and be likee danggg ur hott. u just get kinda like w.e! but if they say i noticed that u look beautiful or gourgous. o and girls love those words, i like them alot more than hot. so just go up to them talk to them and be a friend.. dont jump right in and ask him outt (((HOPEE DIS HELPSS)))
  • You have to be outgoing. You have to make people feel special. If you notice something pretty about someone and you tell them they will feel happy and like you. If you want to ask someone a question dont ask a yes or no one.Ask a one that will start up a conversation. Always seem interested and be perky if you get mad at people easily they will be mad at you. If something really frusterates you then use "I" sentences instead of you sentences to seem less blaming. Do you best and be outgoing and possittive.
  • Learn to dance.
  • Make yourself more popular in your own eyes.. that confidence will be noticed. Dont get confidence and arrogance mixed up though.
  • My mom gave me the best advice that worked great even though I was shy. She told me to smile and say "hi" to everyone, whether I knew them or not, and if there was something I could sincerely compliment them on, to give them the compliment. Trust me, it works great!
  • Bathe. Good hygiene is a must. It doesn't matter how confident you are or how great a personality you have, if you stink, it's over.
  • Here's a nice trick that works on everyone. Familiarity and proximity. They've been shown to promote likability and can lower hatred when without negative stimulus. Sit at a desk near the door where everyone will see you going in and out the most. Be where everyone can see you basically but use common sense. Try not to appear attention grabbing and stuff. :) This tends to work or help even if people know the trick. Also, talking positively about others. If you slag off other(e.g. he is so lazy) people can subconsciously associate those features with you. Think twice and be nice. :D
  • Don't try to fit in. Be a leader. ;)
  • don't, most girls are popular because the demoralize and put down others... is that something you wish to be? just be you, and find real friends, if you can count as many real friends as fingers in your left hand, then you're doing amazing, don't give into mob mentality babe, just be you

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