My boyfriend can only cum when I'm on top, and it takes LONG TIME even then & the way it has to work is me not grinding on him, but bouncing quite rigorously. This is exhausting after 30 min or so. Any suggestions for similiar positions w/ less ... work?
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A two fisted hand job with lube, while you tell him things you know turn him on. Like talking about how you love to sit on his cock and bounce up and down and how good it feels inside. Try that. If it doesn't work keep trying different things.
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Well, hey! Why not have a real good work out. You'll stay in shape :D That's just my opinion.
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Have you guys ever tried it where you are on your hands and knees, with him behind you? He can do the bounce type work, and get almost the same effect, aside from a different view involved.
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Try more foreplay before the ride begins yo...
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While I don't deny your claim is undoubtedly true I myself find rather surprising as I can often cum far easier NOT on the bottom. Not to say it hasn't been a pleasant surprise at times. If you and he are somewhat acrobatic, and he's not the "just lay there" type either try kneeling near the edge of the bed while he is standing in a variation of "doggy style". That can often do it remarkably well for me, and it can be a tad safer than my other suggestion of both of you standing in a similar manner. That can be awfully tough if you aren't the right height for one another, and by the same token if you get a bit "Jello-legged" as the pleasure overtakes you it can be good to have a bed or at least couch to collapse onto.
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do the spoon wer you lay on your sides sorta dose ya from behind it realy nice but men seem to cum quicker that way dnt no why or the toad wer he sits crossed legged and helps you bounce with his arms
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Have him bounce with you. It makes it easier on you.
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It sounds like he prefers to hold still while you slide up and down the length of him. While he'll need to expand his sexual horizons eventually, I can think of one position that would do much the same while being easier on you. Get into a doggie style position and push him back so he's basically sitting on his feet and you're in his lap. Then you can just rock back and forth on your knees. Another option is to keep him upright, in more of a standard doggie style, and just have him hold still while you push back against him. This may stimulate you better as well. I find it feels best when my partner puts their chest/shoulders all the way down on the bed (floor, ground, boat deck, truck bed, WHATEVER!!) with the back arched hard and ass high. Makes for a great view too!
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