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by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on April 1st, 2008
I see nothing wrong with black women/white men relationships. My sister is black, married to a white man, and has 3 kids together and I don't look down on them. I have black females cousins who are married to white men as well. They're becoming common where I live.
I do see more bm/ww combinations. As a black guy, I find white girls attractive and if I have a wife someday, she would eb white.
by BigDaddyBS on April 6th, 2008
I see no problem with it... Was IN one before I met my wife.
I've always wondered about why they are less common, too. I do see this changing, though. I'm a LOT less surprised to see a WM/BF together than I used to be. I've also noticed more BM/WF couples where the WF is relatively THIN - Used to be the BIG girls with the BMs.
I also find that given a choice between a chubby WF and a chubby BF, I find the BF more attractive. That may be MY conditioning... Many of the movies and TV shows I saw growing up that HAD BFs in them, they were chubby to heavy and pretty or cute, where most of the WFs I saw were pretty thin in comparison, and the chubby WFs I saw were brash, like Mimi Bobeck (Drew Carey Show) or Roseanne.
Some of the reticence may be because BFs are more vocal and unafraid to show emotions than many WFs seem to be. This may also be part of MY conditioning.
Either way, I see it changing and more and more interratial (not JUST black & white) couples of all types around.
by contraryone on March 28th, 2008
I date a black man and I am white!! It's because most white men dont like women who have curvy figures. Black men like big butts and thighs. Alot of white guys want the skinny chics.
by QuartzKitty on August 9th, 2009
WM/BW relationships are JUST as common as BM/WW. You just see the later in the media more because that same media, and our society as a whole, holds up white women as the standard of beauty. So, when a black man dates a white woman, if gets attention from the media because they can use it to re-enforces the very standard of beauty that they perpetuate.
On the other hand, a white man with a black woman is a REJECTION of that very standard the media likes to perpetuate. Therefore, they largely ignore such relationships.
I don't intend to put down or slam ANY relationship. This is jut my theory about why the MEDIA and society tends to overlook WM/BW relationships. I am not trying to theorize about the motivation behind such relationships from the participants.
by American idle on April 1st, 2008
Who even notices anymore? People are people.
by Anonymous on May 8th, 2009
It usually happens more in europe , white men in europe are much more open minded then white american men , the black women will always be looked down because of slavery.In europe if you are very dark black women and attractive you are a plus , i know many black women who are married to white european men.White europeans are not like white american men , they see beauty , not color .By the way a latinos and asians can be any race , they are many latinos who are of indian , white and black mixture and asian who are black and part black , so please do your research.I preffer european men , they are so hot , open minded , gorgeous , not ignorant , well educated , and don't worship whites as much as white americans.When you say white , please say white americans , because not every white person in these world thinks like a white american men.
by Babe5612 on April 1st, 2008
I actually thought a black man with a white woman WAS more common. What do I think? To each his own..What business is it of mine.. Is it any differnt than an Irish girl marrying an Italian man?
by Fun on April 1st, 2008
I normally see black men with white women, so I don't know where your facts are coming from.
by Jane on March 28th, 2008
When i see a black woman with a what man i think, "Thats nice to see, good for them"
White men don't find black women as attractive as lets say, white, Latina or Asian. I am not sure why. I have heard a few men say that black women are masculine
by laaayla on August 10th, 2009
The reason that they are not as common as black men with white women is that it's still not as socially acceptable. And this is among the black race. Black men don't want to see their women with a white guy. You get a lot of grief if you marry someone outside of your race if your a black woman. By the way, I'm white with a black son. Well at least society see's him as black. I just see him as my son.
by deferfergre on August 9th, 2009
I'm a black female with a white male fiance. i have only dated one black man in my whole life. Its not because of any prejudice of my own race I just have more in common with white men than I do with black men. I like rock and alternative music and I grew up in the suburbs. I think it is less common because african americans are a very fixed race expecially the women. Most of us where raised to never date out of our race and to support our own culture. Many of my black girlfriend have told me they would never date out of their race because its just too strange and feel they don't share much in common with white men. I don't think its the white men not chosing it as much as it is the blk women.
by Safe Blaze on November 18th, 2008
The reason why black women/white men relationships arent common is becos black women are scared of moving out of their comfort zone and they always care about what people would think of them. I have noticed that white women are very attractive and they know how to take care of themselves (eat well and exercise) but sorry to say black women (sometimes) do not take care of themselves. I have also noticed that black women tend to be "loud" and quarrelsome. I think if a black lady can take care of herself and always try to look good and decent and know how to carry herself in public alot of white men would be attracted to her. As far as am concerned black women/ white men relationships are the best.
by Jen-Jen on April 6th, 2008
Anonymous,
Guess it depends on where you live,
because it's very common here ,and I
Don't think of them...And why should I?
They are no different than me and you..What
just because their of a different color
I'm suppose to pass judgment? That ain't
ever happin.
by Oddjob on April 6th, 2008
I think they are fine(I'm in one) I don't really know why they are not as common as a black male/white female relationships are. Its something my GF and I joke about how that makes us unique from almost every other relationship. Appearance can not be taken out fully but I think its more the persons themselves. Thats whats so wonderful we are all a little different and like different things.
by AnonymousGirl on April 1st, 2008
Well, it doesn't really bother me. Like American Idle said, "People are people."
by sophiesmom on March 28th, 2008
because of stereotypical views of beauty initially. people are spoon fed the insipid view that beauty is white, with straight blonde hair, and blue eyes. what a sad rainbow of beauty with just one color.
by ryan666 on June 19th, 2010
I dont really ever see black women with white men, most white men aren't attracted to black women, they much prefer committing to make their own women happy (which is extremely understandable and respectable), black women appreciate their own men (black men) not white men but too many white women crawl on their knees like little sluts after a black cock, be it from a tramp or a rich man, if its black their satisfied because their that brainwashed. Then they get fucked and used, impregnated and tossed aside with kids to feed and support on their own, white women have built an extremely trashy reputation, its very degrading and you can see all around you the black people that mock the whites for it and i don't blame them, 'look at that dumb white cracker whore'......i dont even remember the last time i heard of a black man/white women relationship working out and its sad that white women are too blind to see that their safest bet is always with their own men because its just the sad reality, this is how we were made its our natural human instinct to respect each other regardless of colour or creed but to only want to love and commit to our own people because no matter what, in the long run when it comes down to it, a man or women of the same ethnicity will always understand each other more. Hope this made sense and i hope some people learn't something.
by - MojoThunder - on September 14th, 2009
because most black women aren't attracted to broke down fat white guys
by Lets Go Sharks on August 2nd, 2009
doesnt bother me none. I love me some black p----
by Natedawg on August 2nd, 2009
I hooked up with a black girl on several occasions. I find black women incredibly attractive with wild personalities. Plus I love the pink centers. As to why black men/white women relationships are more common, I thought it was because most black men have bigger cocks.
by SigFreud27 on July 8th, 2009
how is this so hard to understand? black men have big dicks. white women want to get fucked by big black dicks. white men have smaller dicks than black men. therefore, white men are obsolete to white women.
1+1=2, simple as that.
by animal on July 2nd, 2009
i feel that god made us different for a reason and crossing races is aa sin in his eyes. if he wanted everyone to date then he would have made us the same
by Wishfire on July 1st, 2009
Thats an easy one, black men have bigger feet :-P
by Anonymous on June 28th, 2009
Just face it. White women want black men because they are supposed to have bigger sex organs. Some of them do it just to get their white boyfriends jealous.
by Haughty on May 9th, 2009
Attraction just happens, but I think some people tend to look for their type - be it in their own race or otherwise.
Here in London, there is a lot of interracial dating. I've had plenty of dates/relationships with asian and afro-european women (white male here). But there is sometimes the 'look' you get off some people in the uk which suggests they do not approve of her, or you making the choice to date interracially.
I figured that one of the reason why Bw/Wm relationships are slightly less is because of history. Men are still dealing with feminism and their is an awful amount of gender rivalry.
Couple this with the still active feeling of guilt with regards to white european history towards the african nations during the slave trading. It is a subject that people still think on and feel linked too. Unlike a civil war or political movement - even a century after most of the events our collective roles are literally in our skin.
In effect you have white men aware of the event in gender and racial politics. White men could be feeling that if they are in a patriarchal society and approaching women with whom there have been terrible racial inequality in the not-so-distant past is doubly uncomfortable.
That's just a theory of course. but I have been thinking on it a lot when dating black women and I get the look or occasionally the questions about it.
by curious on April 6th, 2008
I think its cool to see black women with white men, its not a big deal to me at all.
by good ol boy on April 6th, 2008
I was in one, then married her, there is the rub.We lived in the Caribean and when we went to resorts , the inherent arrogance/racism of some of the white guests both horrified and disgusted me.
by Anonymous on April 6th, 2008
As a white girl, I don't mind white men dating black women, which would leave more black men for me.
by dennisteel on November 8th, 2010
the reason i don't care is that interracial dating isn't as common as what the media(movies and new fall tv shows) make it out to be.seems like every movie's lead character now is paired with someone of a different race..trust me..it's not THAT friggin common.but the attempt at encouraging it to be so is.it's absurd
by chickenbeefchocalate on July 23rd, 2011
Just keep away from my girl. Because the white man and black woman are both repulsed by each other
by phirad -you can call me Mike on June 28th, 2009
I don't think it really matters, as long as two people are happy.
by three cousins from the 313 on July 1st, 2009
I think I speak for most American for your first question as don't care about who date who and don't know nor care why AB don't date as much as CD
by bye bye on July 1st, 2009
i think it nice but i tend to support bwwm more than i do bmww, because i have only seen about 4 bwwm relationships in my life and as being a bw, i have always liked white guys, even wanting to date interracially. I do not think it just because i have a loud voice but sometimes its very soft and gentle, i'm told and i don't think black women are "violent" some are just more direct than others and go for the things they want in life but anyways i have given up on dating interracially i don't think it can happen where i live, maybe it'll come soon or never but much love to the interracial relationships out there <(*_*^)
by Shanel with an S on September 14th, 2009
i have no porblem with that at all. its pretty common here in new york.
by Jessica on July 2nd, 2009
it has to do with attraction. many times (not all times- or even close) certain cultures are only attracted to their own culture. (example- a caucasian is only attracted to other caucasions) Without a certain extent of attraction, a relationship will probably fail. but there's nothing wrong with interacial relationships
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HOW WOULD YOU KNOW THAT YOUR WIFE WOULD BE WHITE? I always thought that a white guy was going to be my only attractee, but now, I can see that I click sooo much better with asians! So, you never know!
by Anonymous on November 18th, 2008
Because I have a preference, just like you. Don't judge me.
by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on November 18th, 2008
You might meet an American Indian and fall in love...how are you to know your future?
by Anonymous on November 18th, 2008
What about you? You say you're into Asians. What if it happened to be someone who wasn't white or Asian?
by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on November 18th, 2008
Well, honestly, the ASIAN is the biggest change for me...never was into Asian guys until this last month. Always was like...I love white guys, etc, etc...never seen a guy who's asian who really does it for me. Goes to show that you can find yumminess in another race and can't talk too soon! I've also liked guys my own race, but never got hooked. So, it's all good!
by Anonymous on November 18th, 2008
Exactly, as an asian guy I was never in white girls, even if I watched hollywood movies with all the beautiful white girls as the main casts. It just never stick. When blonde girls surround me I just didn't feel anything, but until recently I watched the Shaytard vblog on Youtube, and his family showed me that white girls are just as sweet, traditional, and feminine as the asian girls. Also, they can also look young in their 30s too, just like the asians. Recently I aslo find a couple of black girls to be attractive.
I realize it's the heart that attract me. Then the body will become beautiful when you see their hearts.
by Heaven9 on December 31st, 2010