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sorry this is the rest... happy. I love his kids and they love me and I know if they end up back together that I will never see them again...and that kills me inside. I don't want to let him go, but i'm just not sure what to do.
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Let him go? LOL, why would you think that you would have any power over another human like that? If a man wants to get back with the mother of his children after 10 months it's not for the kids only...he also misses her, dont be foolish. Stay out of it, it's not your family.
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He is a bastard. If he wants to get back with his ex-wife and he is back in love with her then kick him in the ass on the way out the door. He is really messed up though if he is going back to his ex-wife for the kid's happiness. What is he teaching his kids? That you should grow up and stay with someone you don't love and be unhappy? Is that what he wishes for his kids? When they get older and you asked them what they would've wanted him to do they would not want to be responsible for the break up of the new life you two were creating with them, and the return to a bad relationship. Leave him far behind.
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Remember life is not always what you get but what you give. You will be happier in the end if you let him go and do the right thing.
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Let him go yo...
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Tell him good luck, he divorced for a reason, he must have forgot that. Did they work all of those problems out? It doesnt really matter, why would you want a man that doesnt want you? Next time, try getting to know the man, and want he wants before moving in with him. And no, looking for a replacement is not going help anything, try taking some time and working on you. You dont have to be with a guy, it isnt a law.
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Let him go...for the kids' sake. Kids always land up more as victims than you will. You can make it on your own, his kids can't! He is not a bastard....he just knows in his heart that vulnerable kids are his priority. They have no choices and no control, but you and him do. Don't make the innocent suffer. I feel bad for children who have no say and are forced to submit to the selfishness of their parents. They didn't choose this, he did!!!!! From now on, don't choose a man with young children.
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Let him go..he wants to go back to wifey cause he misses everyone..Maybe he made a mistake..You will never have a life with him, financial ruin is knocking on your door..Leave him don't let the door hit him from behind..Let him go...Three kids, are you serious..
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I am in the same situation , my man and I moved into a place together and his ex girlfriend showed up at his brother house and ended up sleeping over with the kids while I was at home at our place. "LET HIM GO" !! They are always thinking of how it was with the Ex. and if they made a mistake or not.
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dont think about the kids, dont think about his wife or any moral judgements you may hear...for a second, think about this: (i REALLY hope you rid yourself of this situation) why dont u ask people who inherited a peson's financial problems and endless headaches due to staying with someone who had 3 children AND an ex? you WILL hear the truth from them...not from the new beautiful days, but from the REALISTIC back to school clothes, latest video game, electricity bill, and gas pump needed to drive them everywhere...not to mention all the endless emotional turmoil that will be there ALWAYS i know it hurts right now, but you WILL get over it and be happy....then if you find another guy who is able to give himself to you on the equal scale that you are to him, great...love YOU first though good luck...wishin' you a LOT of luck
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LET HIM GO NOW!!!!
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Yes indeed let him go. It is painful letting go of someone you love, but in a situation like this where children are involved, the dynamics are different. You really have no choice to let him go. Obviously his children mean alot to him, and if he feels he needs to be with their mother, then that is out of your hands. I could throw in alot of different scenario's in here to make you feel better, but the bottom line is the choice is not yours. There are plenty of men out there to love and who can make you feel more secure. Good luck! Most importantly, think about the children.
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Girl let that man go. If he is that quick to get back with his ex because of the kids then you shouldn't waste anymore of your time, and if he comes back don't take him back. It is nice that he is thinking about his kids, but what about him being happy. He isn't going to be happy when he goes back to his ex because he is going for all the wrong reasons.
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that is a decision you have to let him make
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Personally I think its bull. If he really love you he would not be talking going back to his ex-wife. I would take it as a sign that maybe he dont love you as much you love him
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