Do you ever just feel like making your Exes suffer? Please tell me I'm not the only one...
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Jenn - is a Chicken-Footed Demon Monster
ANSWERS: 24
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*LOL* Yes, for what they have done to me/you :)
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Um, no. If you don't like them (which I usually assume is the case, or else they wouldn't be your ex) then just let them drift out of your life. The more energy you put into hating them, the more miserable you'll be. Just move on.
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no I don't. harboring bitterness like that hurts no one more than yourself..sounds cliche, but its true.
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No. That seems pretty childish to me. You already broke up.. why not follow through and move on with your life?
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No , just move on , it never gets you anywhere and it's hassle limitation.
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I have a lot of feelings for my x sometimes I hate him with a hot boiling vengence other times i feel sorry for him. But its normal to have anger as long as you let it go.
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yeeeeeessssssssss
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Yeah, not physicaly but emotionaly....
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No. I don't see the point. I love my ex. We had to break up because I just couldn't put up with certain things. I want her to be happy though.
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Yes every single day that goes by, I want him to suffer the lonliness he makes my daughter feel. I want him to long for something/someone so bad and love it so much, but to always and forever have it be just outside of his grasp. I wish the heartache he has caused my baby, and hope one day he opens his eyes and sees her and wants her so bad, just to have her walk away saying nothing. I want him to cry himself to sleep every single night with nothing that can take the pain away. And I want him to know what he could have had, if only... No bitterness here, none at all.
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part of me wants him to. but the more mature part of me wants him to be happy. the malicious part of me wants him to be lonely for the rest of his life and to realize what he's lost. but really, all i want for him is happiness.
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I want him to miserable for the rest of his life for what he did to me!!
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there are two people you hate in this world.they either dont know, or they dont care.Having an unforgiving heart is lame.Hate and hurt for a while,accept it, forgive it,get over it.
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Nah..once you get over them and move on, you realise there's no point to it! You would just seem like a psycho anyway.
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LoL im a dude… Don’t bother.. That means you haven’t gotten over your exz and you’ll only hurting yourself at the end. The best way of getting back at your eXes is to move on.
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I don't have an ex. I've been married for 32 and a half years. However, I have been deeply hurt by people and I know that the prospect of them hurting gives me no satisfaction. What I want from them is to understand things from my perspective a little better and take responsibility for their choices. If they suffer, they will not understand better. In fact, they may use their suffering to justify their hurtful behaviors or feel vindicated. Peace is always more satisfying <grin>. I will throw you one, though: "Success is the best revenge." And here is another: "People of integrity expect to be believed and, when they aren't, they let time prove them right." Best wishes.
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Oh yes...i'd love to make my ex suffer. The thought of it makes me feel better lol even though i'd never dare act on it. You're definetely not the only one :D
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I used to but I decided that I had better things to think about the kids being one of them.
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He suffers every night when he goes to bed, without me!
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ONE WORD- KARMA
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But of course. You know what I did to make him suffer? I became someone, got remarried to a successful man and moved on with my life. I am sure he is envious.
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Your relationship with him has ended through a divorce.Making him suffers is pointless as you will suffer more if what you had planed for him did not work out the way you wanted. To continue the war will not benefit you in the long run as the possibility of retaliation will always be there for you.Let bygones be bygones.From this freedom do something meaningful for yourself as destiny is in your hands now.Life is so short, don't waste it on him. Get acquainted with someone who is caring and loving. Start from there.
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Actually I don't I just wish that he wouldn't ignore me. I just want to say hi and talk to him.
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You are SOOO not the only one! Any relationship that has left rotten tastes in your mouth about the guy tends to do that to you...but, you can't dwell on those types of thoughts cuz it will end up taking over your life and screwing up future relationships...and, I know this through my experiences...
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