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  • Wow, why would you WANT to work things out w/ soeone like that? Don't bother confronting him unless you know you'll wish you had. Tell him you think he's trash & that you're gtting yourself checked out for STDs. The put a picture of him up on the internet to warn women not to get involved with him.
  • DEFINITELY don't confront him without any real proof. That would only give him the chance to snicker in your face and call you crazy. Nope. I say you just get an AIDS test, and say good riddance to old rubbish. Count yourself lucky the bastard is gone, and pray he didn't infect you with any STD's. (NOT just pray, CHECK IT OUT!)
  • I think the greatest concern is whether he is still doing this or is it all over in his life as far as those problems are concerned. It is possible that the reason he does not want to talk about it, is that he is not aware that you are already know. Hopefully it can be worked out and you can stay together.
  • You should definitely talk to him, because I'm guessing you had sex with him at some point! If this 'secret life' is true, who knows how long he was doing it. Get yourself tested for STDs, ETC. to be sure he didn't expose you to anything (whether he did it knowingly or not...)! If you want to work things out with him, then you definitely have to talk about it all -- he's got some serious issues, if this is true. Like, why he did it, etc. Whether he wants to get back together with you or not, doesn't mean he's guilty of this accusation (or innocent, for that matter).. I'm sure he'll have other reasons for wanting to, or not wanting to, get back together. (A
  • Even if it is, you have to ask yourself if you want to be with someone you can't trust. Don't just settle for him because you feel comfortable with him. You didn't really know the real him. I think it may be in your best interest to move on, and I apologize if this is not what you want to hear.
  • This is probably the reason. He is having a good time going down in flames and does not want to clean up his act.
  • First things first, go to your doctor and get tested for HIV and hepatitis and any possible STDs. THEN you can pray about your relationship with your husband and see if he's open to getting some counseling together. If he refuses and you're still confused and want answers - then hire a private detective to find out what he's up to.
  • if you have no proof, how did you make this discovery? only he knows the real reason he doesn't want to work things out but the bottom line is, he doesn't want to...move on. and even if he wanted to, why would you?

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