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This question is supposed to end "Is he right?"
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He's moving fast, and you want to go slow. If he's saying that your not bending to his will to please him sexually will or could end your relationship. You might as well oblige him and end it before you wind up getting hurt. He will only use you to fullfill his desires, being that young he's more interested in sex than he is in a relationship. Your basicly his guinea pig for him to experiment on.
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i think u should just sit him down and tell him how u feel. and if he doesnt except hes not worth it. cause ur a great person i bet. and hes lucky just to date u
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part of being in a sexual relationship is experimintation,im not sure what he wants you to try,but there are a-lot of positions you havnt tried that you really might like.sex isnt supposed to be scary it should be loving and intimate.i get that your scared, try something new if its not your cup of tea then just say im not into it. try everything at least twice,ya never know1
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The more you do, the more that will be expected of you. Learn this lesson now and take notes.
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Dont sweat it, guys naturally get more "feelings" to do more, its not their fault. Just let him know that you want to stay the same on your level and in the future you could develope your relationship. He wont mind, trust me. Cause i was in like the same situation. If he gets mad then you have other problems in your relationship that you need to work out.
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Why do these little boys always wanna rush the freaky stuff. Most of them can't grasp the concept of taking your time with these things. Girlfriend, put a lock on your good stuff until he starts maturing and calming down.
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Change your phone number.
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If your not comfortable, Don't do it. Tell him you're not ready or comfortable with what he's asking. Maybe compromise. Something you might be willing to try that you are more comfortable with.
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Tell him that one time doesn't change the fact that you still have boundaries. Just take things slow and talk to him about it :)
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I figured I would post a follow up since it's been about 3 years since I posted this question. I've learned a lot in the time since my relationship with this boy. People on here were definitely right and I really benefited from the answers and advice people gave me on here. I WAS the guinea pig. His desires sky-rocketed until I ended up doing things for him twice a day every day. He had a HUGE porn addiction and I should have taken that as a warning sign going into that relationship. (I'm talkin 3-4 times a day he would be as his computer masturbating, but only once a day if I obliged him twice a day, which might be why I did it.) This relationship lasted about a year after this, but if I had had the wisdom I do now I would have ended it soooo much sooner. The physical things he was doing to me were borderline sexual abuse but the psychological part of it all broke me down. I often tried talking to him about it but his way of twisting words and ideas was remarkable, and I would just end up feeling inadequate and trapped. At one point I pointed out his sexual addiction and told him to get help... boy did that piss him off. But now I have had a couple relationships after that one and I am such a stronger person from going through what I did. I know my boundaries quite well now and how to say no (although no guy has ever asked of me to the extent that he did). Most importantly, I know that there are so many other great guys in the world that no one should ever have to deal with a jerk. I just thought I'd post this retrospect for anybody else out there who might benefit from it. My advice: be strong, and ALWAYS stand up for yourself and what you believe because NOBODY is going to stand up FOR you. Thanks all
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May b ur b.frnd is 2 open or hasnt defined his boundary yet. It seems sex is more 2 him than love and a relationship. As a piece of advice, try 2 go little farthur of ur comfort level, afterall u have come a long way and still have a steady relationship. Try new things but dont over-stretch urself.
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If you are uncomfortable then I dont see a reason for you to stay in this relationship...cleary you are not ready and there is no need to push something you are not ready for... I would say dump him and become abstinent...its the best solution until you feel you are ready once again to venture into things such as that. =)
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