Do you hate your ex girl/boyfriend? if so, why?

He isn't worth hating.

Hate him, no. Dislike him, yes. Why? Because he had the gall to marry my cousin while we were still engaged and didn't bother to tell me he was marrying her until after it was over.

I cant says that I hate any of my exs, they are all exs for a reason so I wasted enough time trying to love them.

The last person I "seriously" dated was a cheating whore, so I loathe her. The last couple people I pretended relationships with were good ladies, just not compatible. So my legit ex, is a scumbag. Thats why I hate her. She practically ruined me.

No, I don't hate him, but thoughts of him don't exactly "warm the cockles of my heart" either.

no... they do not exist.
if I had an ex I would not hate them, not by my deffinition. unless someone is currently harmful to me or my interest, they never recieve worse than apathy from me.

Yes I do and I always will. There's nothing that will change it. I'd probably spit in her face on her death bed. In any case, I got other things to consume me other than those kinds of thoughts. Nevermind the reason by the why.

Although forgiveness is an important step in getting past the pain of being cheated on twice (both times with best friends), i do understand some of the feelings i harbor may never go away, and mess up my trust issues with other people.

(these atmosphere songs represents how I feel or felt about her until i met my new girl)

In the first song imagine that "bird" is my ex. she thinks she is more important than the rest of humanity, that she is above the rest (hence, bird). and I felt like bringing her down from her imaginary vanity.

The second song helped me get over her and realize we all go through this at some point.

Now im in a new relationship and so much happier than I ever was with the other one.

Me and my recent ex are still practically best friends

No we get on very well.

not really all of my break-ups were mutual and i'm friends with most of my ex's still lol

i don't hate my ex. but when i look back i did have two very abusive boyfriends and i pretty much hate them because they knew what they were doing. it was calculated and i was naive and very young...
hate eats you up more than anything so it's best to try and let it go as much as you can as its self destructive and the people who hurt you don't deserve a second thought. they're lowlife.

no i cant hate her at all infact i still love her.I always wanted to see her happy

Yes, he was a paedophile.

Well, in some ways I do, yes. In other ways I don't. His cockiness and lack of sensitivity slowly eroded any love I had for him.

After years of being the only one who invested emotionally, and the cold lack of mercy he showed during times of difficulty, it just died.

nope how can you hate someone just cause your not bf gf there is obviously something you like about them or you would have never been with them

I dont hate him

I hate that we dont talk.

I cant exactly say the same for him, though. I dont know anymore.

At one point I did. He wasn't an honorable man and he treated me badly.

Now he is of no consequence...it's called apathy.

no. i just wouldn't mind it if he got run over by a Mack truck.

(he lied, manipulated, cheated, stole... need i go on?)

no, hate is not my style

No. I don't hate her or dislike her.

Strangely enough I don't! Even though after a year of going out, and dumping me with no explanation at all and blanking me completely, I realise after seeing your question, I don't! Weird eh?

Excellent question!!!

No, I don't hate my ex... I used to, but it's not worth the energy, and the pain to hate him... I don't respect him, but that's about it for me... He made some choices that really hurt me, but I'm not going to hate him... I just don't want anything more to do with him. I found someone who truly respects and cares for me. I'm happy with my wolf, and I'm going to leave it at that!

Um not really.. Yes the break up did hurt, but im more thankful for the experience than the drama. I learned alot especially with my fist girl friend and you can tak that knowledege and know how to deal with situations a bit more efficiently with your next gf.

not anymore i got over it, i'm not with them any more so it doesn't matter.

I haven't had an "ex" in over 20 years. I barely remember what she looked like. I certaily don't hate her. Actually, I didn't even hate her back then, we just needed different things.

meh, i don't care anymore

Nope, my ex and I are still pretty good friends actually.

hmmm i wouldnt say that i hate him, but i definitly don't like him. he broke up with me and kicked me out for no reason then would not talk to me so i could get my stuff back....grrrr

I could Never hate him....

I think a few of them hate me, sadly.

Oh well, that's life.

I'm starting to now that I found out she was with someone else throughout the entire relationship and acted as if it were my fault for not being open to such.

Yes, she tried to hit me with a clock when I told her I was gay.

I think hate is such a strong word that's used easily theses days.Don't get me wrong i'm not against people saying it! personally if i did ever find myself saying i hate someone that someone must have really upset me in a big way.I am very angry with the way one of my ex's treat me.i sometimes wish i could hate him but deep inside i couldn't.

no we are still very good friends - hes far too kind for me to hate

not, any more i got over it. he was an ass used my money for drugs behind my back. but that was the past.

i don't hate his but dislike him so much. made me feel bad about myself for moving on after he broke up with me. little did i know he'd been nailing my so called friend the whole time.

I hate one of them...my first 1...coz hes the biggest dick faced, coke sniffing, arsehole in the world!!! Just being honest. And I actually quite like anuva 1 but just as mates coz I didnt reli like him enough in the relationship to care tht we broke up.

life is not worthy to spend it on hating people actually i wish for her the best future with more compatible person

I can't fully say I hate him, but I can say he isnt my favorite ex. Personally, I think he is a playaaaa. and he has every girl wrapped around his finger. He said I was his bestfriend, but then he started hanging out with a new girl and he was all like. yeah she is replacing you and she is my new bestfriend. He seriously changes his mind like a girl changes her clothes. and one time when me and him liked eachother, he wanted me to come over and hang out with him. so I did. and then his mom came and picked him up (cause we were walking around) told him to get in the car cause they had to go somewhere. So he did. and he just drove away. Like. Seriously. Who would do that? and we just got into this fight tonight. and now he is all mad at me cause he keeps saying i make all this stuff up when other people say it and everything. so i told him off XD

i wish. . i cant get her out of my mind. . i still love her. . but, she wants nothing to do with me.

just the other day i SMS's her saying that i got a Promotion @ work. and she replied "Dont Care!!" :(

No, we're actually still friends.

Nope, no hate. Some of them I dislike somewhat and feel that they're not really great people, and some I think are wonderful people that just didn't happen to have certain goals in common with me.

Nah, what would be the point of that?

I don't hate any of my ex, It's hard at the beginning when you just brake up, but later, I just don't care really so everything is fine by me.

G'day koolxxx,

Thank you for your question.

No. I don't think it is worthwhile hating them unless they were really awful and none have been,

Regards

Nope, I'm not the kind of person to hate anyone.
+5

At first he was a genuinely funny, nice guy. Thats how it seemed anyway, he was good to me for the first week but i felt like i was the only one making any effort in the "realtionship" (if you can call it that at the age of 15) and so i felt like i was always the one txting him and going out of my way to see him. But then he metioned something about kissing one of his friends (which was a guy)
He lied to me about him kissing him and totally denied it when my BFFFL told me the truth. He lied on numerous occasionas and still denys them to this day.
He is a lyer and probably always will be, unless he relizes that lying gets you nowhere.
Lyers should be hated.. i know that sounds harsh but honesty is like the most important thing i think.

strongly dislike.
i'm more angry at myself for putting up with him for so long.

aww that is so cute
i dnt hate my ex either even though he is very jealous of the partner i have now, he does try spliting us up but it never works