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friends into lovers is a hard call. I tried this a few years back, Id fallen for my bestfriend. You should just ask her out for a coffee or something casual, dont frighten her. when youre out you can ask her how she feels then. tell her how you feel. let her know that you dont want to jepredse your friendship. hope things work out okay for you. xx
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This is the toughest. I like the coffee idea above and I would make it VERY clear that the friendship means everything, but you were wondering what she thought about pursuing something deeper, that you were thinking about it (like a passing thought) but you would do nothing to harm the relationship as it is. And if she says no, maybe say something like, no problem, won't think about it anymore; and continue where you were.
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