LOL. That's called masturbating, dear, and it's perfectly normal. Now ask a serious question!

LOL. That's called masturbating, dear, and it's perfectly normal. Now ask a serious question!

i understand ur question, but in any case for good climax u must always take care of the clit!!! penetration through the vaginal hole will help with stimulation, but once again the clit can not be neglected.try using ur middle finger to put in ur vagina and then use ur thumb to rub ur snub (clit) !!! as u get near orgasm then concentrate more pressure towards the vagina hole.with stimulation try to distribute equal stimulation to each area of the vagina hole and clit.

find your g spot, and then take advantage of it :P

WHY NOT TIE THE END OF YOUR PILLOW INTO A KNOT AND LYING WITH THE KNOT NEAR UR VAGINA MOVE AROUND SLOWLY THEN UP AND DOWN ...U,LL COME IN NO TIME

if you find the g spot your laughing but its not an easy thing to do you have to do alot of searching up there also if you find it and have a partner show him how to get it experiment and you both will have the time of your life lol

It's all about rubbing your clit, not about fingering - by you or anyone! Giving plenty of attention to the clit is always a good thing, especially before pushing anything up inside. Practice will make it right and you'll be more sexually confident. It helps to know what you like and what gets you off. Being with a partner who enjoys themself without shame or disgust is very satisfying. No one likes to feel like they're making the other person do something they don't enjoy too. Find the side of your clit you like rubbing, the pressure you like, and what movements feel good. It's your body! Discover it alone, to make yourself a better partner when you are with someone or to enjoy yourself alone when that's all you've got! Once you've found what works best, then place a finger inside yourself with your other hand as you rub your clit. Feel your muscles pulse inside as you move up and down. Pulling up or sqeezing down on those muscles insures better sex. Do these "kegels" anytime, for 10 seconds at a time and everyday. For healthy urinary control, especially when you age, being able to stop your pee midstream is a good thing and insures no little leaks when you sneeze or laugh. Be sure to smell and taste your own moisture, and look at it's texture on your fingers. It should be almost without smell, clear, and not like paste. Oral sex is something you'll want to enjoy and share with your partner, so know what's healthy for you. This way, you'll know right way if something isn't right, and get it taken care of before it's really bad. Use a mirror to look up inside yourself. It's easiest to use both hands if you place the mirror on the toilet seat lid and stand over it. I hope this helps you. You will enjoy yourself by doing these things!

Clitoral stimulation is how you can enjoy your self. Make sure to use lubricant on your clitoris, get familiar with your clit before you try venturing into fingering yourself. Majority of women can only come from clitoral stimulation. And make sure youcan mentaly turn yourself on ! this is very immportant for enjoying yourself. hope it helps.

The G spot should be behind your pelvic bone.. there are so many techniques and you should find the one that works for you. as for me- unfortunately fingering myself puts me to sleep quicker than anything. I felt bad about not being able to pleasure myself- now I don't care anymore- you can get your loved one to do it- so more efficient..

dnt b ashamed nd go 4 it

use your mind to turn yourself on and wait until you feel relaxed and comfortable tease yourself draw out the pleasure until you cant wait and then tease the clitoris at the same time watch your bodys responses in a mirror and then orgasm and have 3 or 4 more orgasms until you feel fully satisfied.