My bf is mad because I wouldn't go out in 8inches of snow to move my care so he could go to work. It took him 2 minutes to do it and he had to leave anyway. Would you be mad about this if you were him?
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my husband wouldnt even think about asking me to do that. he would actually be a little weirded out if i tried to do it myself.
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Weird that he asked, odd that you wouldn't?
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I would guess he was having a bad morning for some other reason, or was under stress, or maybe he was angry at you for something else or sees this as fitting into a larger problem. I mean, it would have been nice of you to move your car for him; but also, since he was the one who had to leave anyway, it would have been nice for him to do it himself, and that is the scenario which makes more sense to me. But, unless there is a significant size and strength discrepancy between you, I don't think it's relevant that he's the man and you're the woman. That kind of reasoning, in my opinion, is patriarchal and destructive.
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Yes, I probably would. You parked behind him, so it's your responsibility to get out of his way.
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I would be irritated at your laziness, especially since it was against a good cause. but not mad. unless you did this sort of thing regularly. you say you get agitated easily....but what about him? did you have respect for his feelings on the situation? was he running late? How often do you refuse to do something he ask of you?
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If he yelled at you for 10 minutes, this isn't about the car. Most fights within a couple are not about what sparks them, there's other stuff going on and it's worth exploring what that is.
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My goodness. If you knew he was leaving first in the morning, why did you block him in the first place the night before? Think ahead......
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It took him 2 minutes to do it, wouldn't it also take 2 minutes for you to do it?
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You are a selfish bitch! He didnt put your car there, so why would he have to do it for you? If I were him I as I was shoveling out the snow I would be piling it on your car!! I doubt it took him 2 mins to shove out snow enough to block a car in.
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Your question sorta fits into the same category as the commode lid. To raise it or to lower it? who does it, who doesn't? I think your boyfriend was overacting to this situation. He was jealous because you were staying home and he had to go to work. been there done that and the outcome was an arguement. I lost. No need for two people to have to weather the snow, if its not necessary. Wife and i talked this over and i realized that i was making this a big issue for nothing. The best part was making up. oh, yeah!
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hes lazy and needs his ass kicked
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