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  • The world is full of critics. these critics have never made a mistake in their life, so they say. these are people that do not have a life of their own. if at best, their life is either sheltered or none at all. Judgemental people alway but in, to add their unsolicited comments. busy-bodies. these people are jealous of you and what you have or stand for. Do not take judgemental people seriously. there are those that have and those that have not. these people are the have-nots of the world.
  • Most judgemental people do not actually have a sound, fundamental understanding of themselves.
  • Fear: Fear of rejection Fear of associating with someone who they THINK may attrack rejection Fear of retribution - 'going to hell', rejection, personal or professional attacks or punishments Fear of being inferior and becoming the judged rather than being superior and being the JUDGER Fear of new things and looking foolish, and losing respect, status, and acceptance Fear of not having control of others behavior Fear of appearing weak or vulnerable, so they attack to gain power and control Fear of being wrong or making a mistake, so they create an atmosphere in which YOU are wrong and somehow that makes them feel right Fear of looking more closely at themselves and finding flaws or areas to improve because they might end up judging themselves or feeling 'the shame' Fear of death or failure to survive in the world Fear that life has no meaning and that it's "every man for himself" Fear of the unknown - if you don't know what is about to happen, you make it happen to someone else. If you don't understand someone, you take the safe route and assume they are guilty first. Fear itself: too much built up inside leads to so much discomfort that it turns to resentment and builds to anger and eventually hatred. (emotions seem to be very contagious btw) Abuse and neglect: much like fear,a life/childhood of judgment can make people percieve this as normal behavior---"What's wrong with you?!" Will you continue to be the abused and judged, or will you grow up to be the abuser/judger? Lack of social skills and social etiquette. The educational system does not teach spiritual values to people. Unfortunately, FEAR & ANGER lead our policy makers to lump psychology, personal social skills, philosophy and basic etiquette into the same group as religion . . . Separation of Church and State. They apparently aren't educated enough to know that religion is a set of specific rituals pertaining to their personal belief in God(s). Psychology is simply the study of behavior and attitudes. It simply cannot be separated from even the State. Maybe they'll realize that math is a religion too, and stop teaching that? hmmmm? -do you think? Come to think of it, reading is sort of religious too? Hey Everybody! Let's all be rude and judgmental! You gotta protect yerrr personal interests ?? Have you judged a friend today? Did it feel good to dump on someone? The fun part is that you get to feel it yourself when you have your life Review in "heaven." You AIN'T gonna like it! The worse you are, the worse it will be.
  • .. because we all have opinions and do not agree on everything. This is healthy.

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