I found the following text in my bf's phone: "Let me know when you get home so we can talk about us. You can give me a key to the house and I can be there when you get home. I can also move out closer to u." How can I confront him about his cheating?
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Be upfront with him and ask if he's cheating. Tell him you looked at his phone and found the text. Be honest.
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Be direct. Beating around the bush does no good and can leave room for unanswered questions. The not knowing is worse than knowing the worst in my opinion. If you love him, show him and give him the benefit of the doubt. Do not accuse. It hurts like heck I am sure but try and keep yourself together to have a rational talk about it. I do not go into my guy's phone unless I am using it. He does not go into mine.. so unless you use his on a regular basis.. you were checking it to find something? Which means either you are insecure or your stepping out radar is going off. Better to confront the issue head on than to set him up or something to find out. That is not fair and if you love someone you would not set them up to fail. Be direct and tell him why you checked his phone and what you found. Listen when he talks. Good luck.
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I would dump his arse he would soon get the message that I don't put up with any bollocks.
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With a kick in the bollocks. Unless it's his long lost daughter or something then just leave him.
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