Change your clothing a little, wear some more color. Brighten up. Take a plant for your desk. Take a small vase and stick a new flower in it every day. Wear a hat at work. People will start talking to you and new things could start developing for you at work. craig's list is a good place to look for jobs. non profit is a good category. they generally pay more. you are already computer friendly, thats a plus.

I believe we are all exactly where we have placed ourselves. If you have a job you don't like, you placed yourself there and are apparently keeping yourself there. If you really want to change, you will. The same is true about relationships...we are in the relationship we want, and if we want something different we will change. You truly are the master of your own destiny. You are not a victim of someone else, you are your own master. So choose and learn to accept the consequences of your choices. Or make new choices.

You have some of the saddest assortment of questions I have ever seen. I feel bad for you.

Only you have the power to change your life. You must keep trying and working at it, it's the only way you will succeed.