How does one break up with a girl who has depression issues and suicidal thoughts?
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agent1337
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You do it VERY GENTLY, but you might consider getting her some pastoral counseling before you do it but at the very least after the break up. Why pastoral counseling and not a shrink? Pastoral counseling is free, unlike therapy sessions! I would suggest that you act quickly, for she might get worse soon and you will likely be sucked into it and be depressed as well. Also, it is a unbelievably unhealthy relationship for both you and her, especially if she blames you for depression or clings to you to save her. Although, as a general rule, if they tell you that they will do it, it is a cry for help, and the odds are that they won't actually do it. Those who do it hardly ever mention it, for they don't want to involve others or they think that no one care for them or their problems.
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gently but firm as well you can not lead her on or in the long run this will become worse she can nopt guilt you into staying with her 'just incase' its not healthy and only making her worse! you need to help her find help maybe take her to the doc and warn her family (or friends - any1 you are both close 2) i agree with the last answer, people who commit suicide never tell or warn people they like to go alone and in private and dont want any 1 2 interfere so sheis crying for help help her as much as you can then walk away and let her move on to
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