A: Make sure you use your tongue. B: The deeper you go the better. C: It really does feel good. Men sometimes don't express themselves as much as women. Don't doubt yourself!

I've never met a guy that complained about receiving a blow job. A friend once said it best, "There's no such thing as a bad blow job." That said though, you can heighten the experience for him by lubricating the penis very well. As gross as it may sound, using lots of saliva is very good. I don't mean, just getting it wet by sticking it in your mouth. Let the inner porn star in you out and spit on his penis and get it nice and wet. There are also a couple of places on his genitalia that you will want to focus on: Just below the tip of the penis. And on his scrotum, just where it meets the shaft of his penis. There is a little sensitive spot there that will drive guys wild. Good luck.

Also although most men won't admit usually due to there vast ego's :P men like the testicles to played with just as much if not more than the penis.

I have this saved as an email from some web source... I dont remember where it is originally from, but it is the best and most complete description Ive ever come across, have fun! << << Lip service With help from some local sexperts, we’ve compiled a TONY–approved guide to getting around downtown. FOR HIM (fellatio) Step one: Meet Dick You’ve been making out for a while and the heavy petting is getting heavier—it’s time to descend. “Make a little eye contact as you kiss down his body, ending with a few licks on the sensitive inner thighs,” explains Taryn Jay, a freelance sex educator who specializes in bachelorette-party workshops (dirtywork.shops@gmail.com). End up in a comfortable position—on your knees, crouched between his thighs, or kneeling over his reclining body—any way your mouth meets his junk works. Step two: Make firm commands If he’s not hard yet, putting his penis in your mouth should manifest a physical change rather quickly. For circumcised guys: Lick the shaft from bottom to top along the supersensitive frenulum (the soft gathering on the underside of the penis) and around the corona (the brim of the head). If he’s uncut, gently pull the skin up over the head of his cock and lick at its folds, Jay suggests. Once he’s erect, his foreskin will retract, exposing the head. (You can play with it a little, but be careful because this is an especially sensitive spot for unsnipped guys.) Step three: Pucker up Slide your lips over your teeth, “but not so much so that you’re puckering like a grandma,” says Jay. “It’s okay if your teeth aren’t always completely covered—just be sure that they’re not scraping like a carrot peeler.” Once you put him in your mouth, cultivate a good amount of spit. Don’t be self-conscious about slobbering: “Guys like it. They don’t care if you’re drooling or your eyes are watering—the more into it you seem, the better.” When it comes to giving good head, enthusiasm is just as important as technique. Step four: Get moving Put your whole mouth around the shaft and make a seal. Start to move up and down, creating a slight suction with your lips. Get into a rhythm, making sure your tongue is constantly moving. “When doing the basic in-out motion, use all the different parts of the mouth,” suggests Jay. “Rub the roof of your mouth’s ridges along the frenulum, or the inside of your cheek.” You can do the porny, tongue-flickering thing on his corona, but don’t linger too long: “You don’t want to treat the penis like a clit,” she explains. “Men want a big, sloppy, spitty in-and-out show.” Step five: Lend a hand Once he’s lubed up, incorporate your hand: “If you can’t deep-throat, this is a great way of getting sensation to encompass the whole penis, down to the very bottom,” explains Morty Diamond, a sex educator at Babeland (babeland.com). Use your hand as an extension of the mouth, loosening your grip as you go all the way down and tightening as you pull up. “Another great technique is the ‘bob ’n’ twist,’” Diamond explains. “Twist your hand and mouth over the slippery corona and then slide them all the way down the shaft, moving your lips, tongue and palm side to side as you descend.” Step six: Get ballsy Very important: When you start paying attention to the testicles, don’t forget about the penis! You want to keep something (hand or mouth) on it at all times so as not to lose momentum. With your palm still moving rhythmically up and down his shaft, lick his balls from underneath, as if you were enjoying an ice-cream cone, with a flat, sloppy tongue. “You could also cup the balls while giving a blow job, which is a nice feeling,” explains Diamond. “Just be gentle, since most men are not used to someone playing with them.” Step seven: Pace yourself “You’ve done a few tricks to get him fully aroused, but to get him to orgasm you need to get serious with a smooth, repetitive rhythm,” Jay explains. Once you get into the groove, don’t change up your momentum. Use both your mouth and hand—and don’t stop (unless he says to). Step eight: Brace yourself A couple of nonverbal cues will let you know he’s close to climax. Per Diamond, “His cock will get harder and redder, his moans deeper, and his balls will constrict into his body.” If you want him to ejaculate in your mouth, then just keep it up; otherwise, finish him off with your hand (once he orgasms, lay off, as his penis will be sensitive). You’ve just given this amazing blow job, so what you do with his semen is up to you: “If you’re opposed to letting it go down the hatch, let his ejaculate run down the cock and wipe it up with your trusty sex towel—or a dirty shirt,” Jay suggests. >> >>

First, you are already going above and beyond. But, one think I LOVE is when a girl performing this for me vocalizes "mmm, you taste so good!" or moans while doing it. However, I rarely orgasm from oral sex but that doesn't mean I don't love and appreciate it.