I think it's stupid people. I wasn't like that before but now i too cannot control my anger. When i was new in this town i tried desperately to fit in so i'd fake interest in people's stories, ts ts ts, But Now I egnore them. Now from personal experience i know what could cause it, like for me it was stupid insignificat facts people think i would want to know but I DONT CARE!!! So for you i would think it may be stupid people, or just some unresolved issues you may be carrying with you.

BITTERNESS!!! Imagine you have a tree that produces fruit. Let's say you see the tree producing 5 fruits called "Anger", "Malice" (regard with extreme ill will), "Wrath" (Violent anger),"clamour" (continuous loud noise), and "evil speaking". You might think you are just angry, but when you read the list, you find that you have ALL of these qualities as they go hand-in-hand! But, what you are failing to recognize is they are all connected. What you are also failing to realize is that they are in fact just the fruit of what the tree is producing. What you CANNOT see is the ROOT OF BITTERNESS beneath the tree! The fruit is like your check engine light. It is telling you to check under the hood. Well, it's that simple. When a person sees these fruits (of anger, malice, evil speaking, clamour & wrath), you are getting your warning signal that there is a deep seated bitterness in your heart. For me, there was a combination of issues. I resented my mom for things I felt she did that was unfair. I grew up with some anger, but it didn't really come out until I felt that my husband had destroyed our marriage thru infidelity and never made restitution that the bitterness began to grow & grow....until one day I found myself EXPLODING at every little thing he did. I really want to blame him, but deep down I know it is my problem with unresolved bitterness. I want justice to be served and others to feel my pain - so I inflict it upon them. It's wrong and I need to recognize that it is not my job to be judge, jury & executioner! I find that I would rather be right, then happy! Sometimes happiness comes from accepting those things that you cannot change or control and allowing for other people to make mistakes (even when they hurt). This is what I belief is the real problem with anger - it's a symptom of a bigger problem in your own heart!