Are there really women out there who are attracted to "violent, abusive men"? Why do they risk their own physical safety and mental health by going with these guys?
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To some women, the drama of it all is worth it for a while. Then, later on, they think, "Uh oh. What did I do". But, then, it's often too late because they are stuck in a vicious cycle of Heaven and Hell.
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I was in a relationship like that. It didn't start out abusive. After some time, he changed. I was completely brainwashed into believing that I could not survive in this world without him. He reminded me everyday that I was fat, ugly, and I was lucky to have him for no man on earth would consider being with someone as atrocious as me. My determination, self respect, and confidence was gone, and still effects me today. I thought that he would change, and that he would go back to when we first met. He never did.
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hoping they will change sometimes they are afraid to leave them
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it's like people who enjoy extreme sports or those idiots from "jackass" If you can explain them, then you can probably explain this problem as well.
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Some women stay in abusive relationships because they are financially or emotionally dependent on the abuser I witnessed firsthand how the vicious cycle of abuse wears a woman down I experienced an abuser I was homeless and vunerable and met this guy at first he was ok but then I saw the red flags come up and I had to weigh going back to the streets a shelter(they are also abusive and dangerous) or being talked down to and controlled I chose the former thinking I could handle and reason why the abuse was happening I did well at first however I began to gain weight and show signs of schizoid behavior from playing along with his tyraids well to sum it up one should practice self preservation and guard ones mind and heart and leave any type of abusive situation immediately ( I eventually left and had to start over alone at square one and get counseling)so see you cant win its that simple love yourself
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