How personally involved have you become with fellow ABers? Did you incur any problems from getting so involved?
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MIA
ANSWERS: 14
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I never really became involved "personally" with any Ab member. Maybe perhaps some emails but not anything further than that.
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Some..a few big regrets..par for the course, as I have discovered from others..some shocks..some disbelief..again, par for the course! :(
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Some have welcomed me into their personal lives and I love that they trust me to keep it personal. The only problem I've come across is that I feel really bad when I can't help fix a problem. I have many friends here who I trust and that's a pretty big deal for me since I have trust issues....you are one of the ones I trust completely :))..thank YOU!
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I've become personally involved with a couple of ABers.
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I suppose I seem rather distant and remote to most people but I have many people that I like very much and a few that I have got to know on a more personal level. I wish I had a more outgoing nature but I suppose I am what I am.
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Ironically some of my more shallow associations proved to be the most problematic. The deeper associations which should have been more prone to problems turned out to be the most joyful and rewarding. Who knew?
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Yes, I have. And I can say for all the trouble certain ones have tried to cause me when I realized who they really were behind their masks they really haven't cause me any lost sleep. As much as I like this site it's still just a web site. What are they going to do to me? Nothing.
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I get very involved with some users, mildly involved with others, and superficially involved with the rest. Most of the time, it's been all good. Some times it's fantastic, like with you. The rest--well the rest is what it is.
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Fairly little. I am mostly a private person and keep mostly to myself, though I do IM a couple of ABers on a consistent basis, occasionally e-mail a third, and sporadically banter with one that lives nearby and sees me bouncing down what used to be a road every day on my way to/from work. To date, I have had no problems from being involved.
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I'm afraid of getting too personally involved with some random stranger on the Internet. I mean, I'm not casting doubts on your character guys, but better be safe than sorry.
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There are some on AB that I knew from long before on Y/A...and quite a few I've made friends with after coming to AB. I exchange emails with a dozen or two, and a handful of phone calls.
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Aside from the toilet seat being left up on occasion, all goes well;)
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Well, this makes me so sad to say, but I have poured my heart out to some here and then, shockingly, found out that they were not at all who I believed them to be. When I tried to distance myself, they attacked me and sadly, my friends, viciously. I guess that is what we learn here in this place. That the DEVIL is in the details - the details that we so innocently overlook when we need a friend.
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blah blah blah. I am involved, but I don't see many problems. The problems that occur are normally the other person creating delusional incidents or denying that they have flaws and they are victims. screw them all.
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