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if you and you boyfriend are in love... and you dont need the support of your family... then tell them you are happy with the choices you've made in your life.. you and your boyfriend are happy with eachother and expecting a beautifull baby... they will have to get use to the fact that your life is yours.. and they need to either stop controlling you or never be involved in you or your child's (their grand child's) life again.
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The question is what do you want? What's your gut feeling... Not your family or boyfriend. Having the baby is a completly life changing. and you are very young still. Your life & plans will now be put on hold...as for your boyfriend you know better then anyone if that will last & still theres no guarntee. Can he support you emotionally & finacally. Guys tend to say things now in the moment and then in a year things change. It get too tough, or they don't want that anymore, or they want to go back to their old life and not play house anymore. Guys can walk away alot easier from the situation, leaving you holding the bag. Family more times then not will stick by your side, you may not alway agree with them nor them with you...but when push comes to shove who can you count on..family or boyfriend. So worst case, he walks away an your family disowns you...are you ready for this resposiblily all by yourself?
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I would say have the baby and if your boyfriend as it sounds would be willing to take care of the baby. Go that way as for the ethnicity of you or him. That does not matter, my girlfriend is black (I still don't know what my family thinks, but I don't care). My advice, family is important but a "spouse" becomes closer family then parents or siblings. More often I think I would be more excited about a baby then my girlfriend, so speaking from your boyfriends point of view. I would be willing to support the baby and my GF, so my guess is he will with you two.
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do not have an abortion because your mum feels this is right, dont keep it because your boyfriend wants it, do you want it? can you and your boyfriend raise this child and be good parents? these are the things you need to think about, if you love your boyfriend and you want a family go ahead your mum should come around! the thing i will repeat as its very important: DONT HAVE AN ABORTION JUST BECAUSE YOUR MUM SAYS SO! abortions can really mess with a girls mind and you may regret the descion forever!
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its YOUR decision not anyone elses...your parents are gunna either accept it or not..i dont see why they are so judge mental .if you what to keep the baby im all for it..cuz im 19 yrs old too and im due in march and my bf is black too and even tho my mom doesnt care about the race she also said why not abortion..but that was not in the pic i couldnt handel that...but ultimatly your 19 ur a grown woman u can make ur own decisions i understand you rally want ur moms support but for that u neeed to sit her down and talk to her and let her kno how you feel and ask her why shes so against it.....my mom wasnt happy when she found out..but now she cannot wait for her grandson to be here.... trust me its ok you will be fine..but make the decision based on what u want not ur bf or ur mom or anyone else only you bc if u base it on someone else ull regret ur decision in the end or just be like well what if...and u dont need to be asking ur self that.....i hope i kinda heloped if u need anything else write back!!!!
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well personally to be honest im now 16 weeks pregant i am excited but at first i wasnt sure what to do ...but its up to you to make this decision on your own if you know your going to be alright financially and stuff with this child then so be it but then again its up to you..my childs father is also black and at first my family wasnt to happy but you know what ..i wasnt worried about what my family thought i was worried if i wanted ta make a family or not and have mom and dad there not caring what other people thought ...well if you know and ahve help make the best dicision caues now im havin my second child with him and he says its not his and left me so just make sure your ready for alot of thhings exspecially your school if u acn finish thats great ...but best wishes to you and your family
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its your decision not your mothers or boyfriends! if you decide not to keep it though, you could always give it up for adoption, but like i said its your decision. good luck
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Are you two in love? Can the two of you support a child? There is a chance that your family will come around once the baby is born. Look at your situation and determine if it is the right thing to do to bring a life into your world. If not you may want to consider adoption or someone else who can help with the support. May the lord be with you as you make such an important decision.
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What do YOU want? I was reading thru your answers & everyone has given you some excellent advice. Remember, it's YOUR choice. Nobody can make this decision for you...not your mom, not your bf...nobody but you. ...And whatever you choose, I wish you the best. I know this is a trying time for you & your family.
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You must be almost 7 months pregnant by now. How did things work out?
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This is HUGE............... its all about wat u want now................. i doubt college and a baby wit fit well 2gether....... i would say u should be confused cause i am........ but dont do wat bf or mom says........... do wat u say.................. ur grown and wit that u make ur own decisions....... mom or bf can easy leave u and the baby......... u cant leave the baby.......... soo wit that think very hard.......
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