seriously? i think so. i was with someone for almost a year when he cheated on me with another girl. even tho i was pissed off for several months, i still loved him and probably would've taken him back if he'd asked. however, one day about two months ago, i vented to a friend about my feelings for him and the next day when i woke up, it was like he never even existed. i know it sounds ridiculous, but it's true.

You will probably never forget that person, but you will move on and the feelings will slowly fade as long as you have the strength to distance yourself from them and give someone new a chance eventually. Just make sure you take the time and let your heart heal before jumping into anything else. If you don't the feelings for your ex will always be in the back of your mind and eventually they will come back out and ruin what may have been something good with someone else.

i think you just start accepting it a different way. You will never forget your love/s, no matter what happened and how long ago it was. i fell in love last year and got dumped, he's the fist person i really loved and cared for more than myself and i don't think i'll ever forget him even tho we'll prob never get back together. You get to a point where it will still hurt when you think about it but most of the time you're ok with what happened, well as much as you can be anyway!

To be honest...i dont think so! I broke up with a great guy (5 yrs ago..we had been together for 2.5). The day it happened, i knew my heart had been ripped to pieces...why did i do it....religion!!! He was Muslim...i wasnt, and i didnt want to have a Muslim family...! The religion was never ever an issue with us as a couple ( he was just e regular guy who oractices a regular religion like anyone else...he was not a mad extremist like we see all over the tv)..but i knew in my heart and soul if kids came into it...well then that would just not work! I left him...by leavin the country...my heart was breaking...and still is! But that was what I chose...I have since met someone knew...we are now married with adorable twins and a dog!!!( my own religion..the husband and kids..not the dog)...i love this new man very much...but i will never ever get over my previous love! He was everythin to me....and i was everythin to him.....what an amazing but yet cruel thing religion can be!!!! :(

In simple words, it is against love's nature to get over your true love nor is forgetting him/her a possibility. Life is all about choices we make and u merely choose to move on to what u make of having to live without him/her- a situtaion u did not intend being in. But it does help deleting all pics/emails/messages/call history, etc etc, in that, by doing so, there is not more to be heartbroken over as by visiting(and re-visiting) them. But it's a beautiful feeling having loved someone completely and cherish that "memory" for as long as your heart allows you to.. that kind of love comes by once in a lifetime- where u love someone against all odds and beyond everything.. If someone comes along you see a chance to gain some of your faith back in love with, by all means give it a shot... and give it a very fair chance without letting feelings for your ex come in the way or you might regret it eventually for having lost again what could have been another chance with love, with someone who'd be just as capable of making you happy (as the one you can't get over) and keeping it that way. I've loved someone more than anything I've ever desired but there's nothing you can do about not being wanted the same way, not being loved as much or more..

I fell in love in 1986. He died in 1989. My life had to go on. I had no choice but to this day I love him just as much as I did the day I fell in love with him. I still cry over him and I miss him every day. I have dated but it's hard for me to be other men because I find myself comparing them to him. In my eyes, he was perfect. The pain does get better after a while.. I moved on but I will never forget. Even if he had not died, I don't think I would ever forget. He made me feel something I had never felt before. I don't think you really get over ur first TRUE love..you just go on.

i dont think so..id been with a guy for 2 n a bit years..he ended things n it got a bit nasty but no matter what was said or done i couldnt help but feel the way i did about him.dat something that no matter who else you were if it just didnt feel quite the same and that little something always seems missing.it gets easier over time but no way can i ever forget the way he made me feel.i even felt it when i was out and we both crossed paths, its some weird and overwhelming feeling that you get

In the end what matters most is How well did you live How well did you love How well did you learn to let go Learning to let go is just as important as love. One goes with the other. You will get over him, but you won't forget. Like the comments earlier though, you just have to deal with it and learn to be ok with the circumstance, even if it didnt go your way or as you hoped. Life is crazy man!! You just gotta love it

I have had three true loves in my life. The first was my oldest child's father. After 5 years together, he started beating me and I walked away. I learned to forgive him and we have a great relationship now. We are both remarried. I still love him and care for him as I have known him for 20 years. However, I no longer have that desperate "have to be near" him feeling. My second love was a man that didn't show up at our wedding and just disappeared. That tore me up very badly and I went into a horrible drunken depression. I still google him from time to time and wonder what I did wrong. I think my heart would still skip a beat if I saw him, but I guess I got over missing him so badly. It doesn't hurt anymore. The third is my husband. From the moment I saw him, I said, "oh, yes, he will be mine". We have been together for 6 years and my heart still jumps 5 feet in the air when he is near me. I still get excited when he calls me during the day. I still tingle when his warm hands touch my back.

No. I don't think you'll ever get over your first true love. There's a big difference between your first love and your true love. I have been with so many guys in the past and out of all the guys that I have been with, he was the only one that I ever truly loved. Ever since him, I've never laid eyes on any other guy since. Yes, I moved on. But, it's hard to get over your true love and I know how you feel. He's on my mind every day. Every time I think about him, I still feel the pain. I guess when I'm old and in my 60's I will always remember my love story when I was 18. My life will always revolve around him and the memories that we had together.

You don't forget the ones you really loved, and you shouldn't. Just move on and keep the good things in your memory bank.

I dont think you do,you will always remember that person. You do move on,some people still love them after so many years.I think that it somewhat never goes away,it doesnt mean that youd get back together if there where a chance,but its just something thats always there.

i fell for the most beautiful girl in the world but then she moved away i swore that when im old enough i would go and find her i did in the summer of 1999 i told her who i was and we started dating then we got married and ive never been happier now we have a beautiful 2 month old son he has my eyes thankly he looks more like his mum than me good things do happen if your willing to fight for them

I am now 56 years of age and I loss my one and only true love when I was age 30. It has been exceptionally difficult for me because I always suffered with a serious mental illness. Before this man I had been raped three times and only sough by men for sexually purposes. No one ever realized that I had more to me than just being pretty and crazy. I was talented and intelligent. I met this guy over the telephone by accident and after four months of telephone conversations I thought he might be the one but I was beginning to believe he was different when he took me out on my first date ever and we were returning home and I CRIED. hE STOPPED THE CAR AND ASKED WHY I cried and I asked him was he taking me to the woods for sex. He was so gentle and compassionate and when he heard my terrible story. He said to me we do not have to do that until you are ready. It was just that way and it was not until l8th months into the relation that I dedcied to make love to him. He was good to my daugher, he cared about my health both emotional and physical. However, I sent him away due something someone else had done to me. I got upset and failed to tell him that what he said confused me and I jumped to the wrong conclusion and said to him I hate you and sent him away forever. Yes, I met anotehr guy after one year but he treated me aweful and never took me out , talk mean to me and even called my daugher a bastard child. I had a child by him and that was a nightmare , the only thing that kept me going through a very complicated pregnacy was if it was my true love this would not be happening. The second boyfriend I had was a drunk and he was nice but didn't really like either one of my children because he felt I spend too much time on them and not enough with him. He was selfish! in The ninth year of our relationship he beat me up severly in the Lobby of a Hospital in front of my then 14 year old daugher . Who actually saved my life by getting a guy. No one will ever tell me I didn't try and that I was nice looking and smart and could find someone new and possibly better. No I did not do better only far worse and now I am the lonely one . The one I had a child with married anotehr lady and the other died. NOw all I do is reflect upon the 2 years with my one true love and how stupid I was for misjudging this wonderful guy! I did see my true love 9 years after our breakup. It was far too late and I was still involved with my child's father who was extremely jealous even though he was a total cheat. I so wanted to explain why I got upset and give a sincere apology but I hurt him so badly he turn with the same sad look and just walk away forever. I have never seen him again since. I have been very sick lately and tried hard to locate him just to tell him I have never love anotehr as I loved him and I so appreciated his good love and I was sorry for misjudging him. I had no success and now all my heart does is cry day in and day out. I do things with the church and take care of my grand nicece but when I come home and there's nothing but him to think of all night.

True love doesn't just go away. I don't see how one could ever get over someone if it's true love.

I believe true love only once in life. It is hard to get it more than once. Yo may not get it at all.