Do you believe there really is someone out there for everyone? do you believe that there is a special someone for everyone? cause i don't feel like she exists at all right now and feels as if i'll never find her! :'-(
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schizo_tomcat
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Hi. Well, I'm not sure how old you are. First if you are quite young consider that you haven't had the time yet to feel such despair. No matter what, have faith that the right person will come. I believe that it is rather much easier for a man to find a nice young woman who he can trust and be happy with than it is for us as women to find someone. I'll tell you what...the nice girls are involved in service projects and are usually at bookstores or university libraries. A nice girl might be a bit shy and feeling the same way as you.
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No, I don't think there's some pre-ordained perfect match for each person. If you believe that, you're basically saying "I'm not responsible for my own life, there's some mysterious force rolling the dice for me". But, there IS a big difference between "someone I can get along with" and "someone who rocks my world", and I think a lot of people are in the former kind of relationship -- it's OK, and they go along with each other, and it's probably better than having no companion, but if you've had the latter kind of relationship it completely spoils you for the former. When you meet someone like that, it might SEEM that you were preordained to be together, because of the timeless quality of great love. But that's an incorrect conclusion. Nobody is pulling our strings, we make our own choices.
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Actually, no, I don't believe there's someone out there for everyone.
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I think that there is more than one person out there for everyone and what I mean by that is that it blows me away that we set our sights on one person with the thought that he or she is the one person that we need and the only person who "fits" us. We get all bent out of shape when that person leaves and suffer unbelievably if they are unfaithful. You've heard time after time "there are plenty of other fish in the sea". IT'S TRUE!
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It would be impossible since there are more women than men from the stats I last read. (that is if your straight). It should never be an easy thing to find the one you should want to spend your life with. The reason why so many couples break up is because they do not really know the people they are connecting with. Too many settle for what they are not looking for because they become lonely. I am in my 30tys and I have never had a steady boyfriend until I met the guy I am planning on tying the knot with in June. many dates to get to know others but none were what I thought was right for me until my current guy came around. We have been getting to know each other for a little over 2 years and finally we decided we were matched and now we are taking it further. You should keep looking and no maybe you won't ever find them this does not have to be a bad thing. half the fun is getting there. Good luck.
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There may be someone for everyone, but what if you are in Canada and the other "soul mate" is in Sweden?
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Maybe they will find you
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I do believe that there is a cover for every pot - a mate for every person. But that is just what I myself believe. I could be way wrong with this but I don't think that I am. I have always found that when I myself take a turn at looking - I find failure and heartache. But the minute I toss in the towel and say piss on this dating crap - BAM there he is and he is still here.
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If you keep believing that you will never find your "someone" then you won't! Get out there, and find em!!! I found mine, but it took me almost five years to realize that! Luckily, he never gave up on me!
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Well, not here in Puerto Rico. Single women outnumber single men by close to a quarter of a million! And that statistic was completed including the jail population (Mister Right is probably not there). While women are crowding Colleges and Universities, young men are quitting school and many of the few good ones are moving to the USA looking for better jobs and opportunities. It is not easy to find a good single man in this area. During an interview, one single college girl said to a reporter that single men are like coin phones. They are hard to find, and once you find one it will probably be "disconnected" and will not work.....LOL!
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Yes I do, if you let yourself be open to people and check your prejudices aside and be prepared to give and take, in all the right places and without losing yourself. I think it is highly possible to be choosy and find the right person. Make the decision once and make it a good one. I've known people who have waited until they were in the 40s and found that right person and not regretted it. One lady, after being married briefly in her early 20s, waited until she was 52 before finding a man she felt she would live her whole life with and they have been so happy for almost 20 years now:-)
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i mean realistically there has got to be someone else with nearly the exact dislikes and likes who would be a perfect match for someone. everyone differs but no one is so eccentric that no one can relate to them on important levels.
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No. I think that's just a cute little line people say in the hopes of making depressed people feel better about their situations.
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