Because "rejection" isn't something that most deal with very well. So when they hear "NO" even though you've said "yes" in the past that's all they focus on!! OR...Could it be that they may have a hard time understanding if you've said "yes" before why are you saying "no" now?

Maybe we *didnt* ever say yes...

Maybe they got yes and no confused? Dealing with confusion: http://www.articlesforboomers.com/Article/Dealing-with-Confusion--Indecision--and-Frustration-when-Trying-to-Meet-Your-Match/4370 - - - - - -[Here is an excerpt from the website for you.] - - - - - - Dealing with Confusion, Indecision, and Frustration when Trying to Meet Your Match By: Randy Gilbert The divorce rate is rising not only in the US and Canada, but in the UK and Australia, as well. Many couples are unaware of the necessary relationship skills and strategies needed to make good partner choices, and build lasting, loving relationships. Dr. Jackie Black, a doctor of psychology and relationship coach says, "We create our life and our love life through our beliefs, intensions, and the actions we take in the world. The more we know about ourselves, what we need and want, the more we know about what we need and want in our partner, the more successful we will be creating a lasting relationship with our ideal match." Dr. Black experienced an extraordinarily difficult and agonizing time when she lost her husband, her true life partner and soul mate. Her wonderful relationship with her husband made her want to get the word out to others that they too can experience this type of rewarding, passionate relationship. She developed powerful strategies and tips to help people get started on meeting their match, cracking the code to successful relationships. .