ANSWERS: 39
  • No i would and could not. That is the most scary and disrespecting thang to go throw
  • no and no....
  • I'd like to think I'm mature and loving enough to be able to, but there is no way on earth I could look someone in the eye who had violated another person like that and feel anything but hate and loathing.
  • is that before or after I have fed them their balls?
  • no I wouldn't and no I couldn't. I could live with them, put up with them, even love them, but I couldn't ever forgive them for what they did.
  • Even in a strongly religious person, there is something terrible that is always there.
  • It would depend on whether or not they raped 'me', and how / why they did it. I could not forgive someone who raped 'someone else', unless the person who was raped had also forgiven them (the only reason I would forgive someone for something like that is if their actions had, in the end, caused no real harm and the other person(s) involved had also forgiven them). For instance, if someone raped 'me', but had a very severe mental illness that made it really difficult for them to control themselves, understand other people's emotions, etc and in the end no real harm had come to me, I would probably forgive them, try to get them the help they need, then stay away from them.
  • Depends. By the legal definition an 18-year-old having sex with a 17-year-old is rape, even if they both agree beforehand. Even two 17-year-olds having sex is rape. In that situation I could probably forgive a rapist.
  • If he was truly sorry (mental illness) and sought treatment, I would hope that I would be able to move on with my life and forgive for my own mental well being.
  • I would do my best to forgive and let go of all the bad feelings so they don't turn and devour me. I would want to forgive and let go. I'm sure it would be difficult.
  • I would, could and have. Other peopla have a harder time forgiving him that I do, when I have more reason to hate him more than anyone else does. Hating him for so long emotionally drained me, and I just let it go. I cant undo what he did to me, but I can move on with my life. ~+~
  • 1) I forgave my brother 2) I forgave my father 3) I forgave my step dad 4) I forgave my cousin 5) I forgave my sister's husband 6) I forgave my adopted uncles 7) I forgave my parents friends 8) I forgave those who were suppose to be mine 9) I forgave the strangers I have forgiven them all.
  • completey depens on how brutal and what the circimstances. if both people are old enough to make desisions, and both agree, i don't call it rape. alot of rape victims are killed afterward, and anyone who can rape and kill say, a child (common), or even an adult, isnt doing the world any good by being here with eveyone else, and should no longer have the right to live. i thik you don't have the right to go around destroying others lives, if you yourslef want the privilege of being on this planet..there are more of us normal people who just want to live, and it's sick to think another person can do that to anybody.. just rape without murder, can still ruin someones life and is in the same category, but again, it depens, but i'm leaning toward usually no, as it is a horrible offence only ugly evil people can commit, and letting them ruin everyones elses right to live freely is just not okay. mental illness might play a factor, but even then they shouldn't be around other normal people to repeat thier offence. everyone has issues, it's up to that person to find inner peace, not let their mind consume them. if you that fucked up, what are you doing here? your obviously not living a happy healty life anyways... i say let the victims live thier healty lives, and just get rid of sicko creeps who prey on others for fun (or any reason)
  • If I were the victim? Yes, I could and have..there came a time when I had to get on with my life. If a family member were the victim (especially one of my daughters)...I highly doubt it.
  • If the 3 animals that had attacked my sweet Edna would have been satisfied with just raping her I probably could have found it in my heart to forgive them. Seeing how they didn't stop at just rape but bashed her face and skull into a bloody pulp on top of it for what reason I wish I knew I will never forgive them. They took away from me the only person who ever truly and completely loved me and I hope they all roast in the fires of hell for the rest of eternity for what they did to her.
  • no. they are horrible. i would feel dirty just talking to them.
  • I know that if someone raped me, I would be able to forgive him. He should still be punished, though, because it's only fair.
  • It took many Years for me to Learn how to Forgive.. Since Forgiving my Perpetrators.... I Now know what the Meaning of Freedom is for myself !!
  • I am working on it, but for my own sanity not thiers.
  • It is all about circumstances.
  • No. I am a male. I don't know how any man could do that.
  • I will never EVER forgive the three that attacked me. I've let it go...it was eating me up inside. But every time I see them I get sick to my stomach. The thing is..is that they don't even remember me and can't understand why I don't like them. Makes me wonder who else have they done this too. My life was ruined and they act like nothing happened. I hate them, hate them, HATE THEM!!!
  • I forgave my rapist. I will NEVER ever forgive my son's rapist. she can rot in Hell and I do believe she will.
  • NEVER EVER because they took something that was not theres and can not give it back personally they don't really deserve to live.
  • I've never had a run in with a rapist however several people that I know have and if I could meet their rapist's I would kill them simple as that, no hesitation. They deserve to die and never be forgiven.
  • sorry bout this but"f----- never"
  • You're kidding right? No. I've moved on but i have no intention of forgiving.
  • Yes, I forgive for myself, not the rapist, I dont want to hold that bitterness inside me. I, however will never forget.
  • I have not been able to. maybe sometime in my life I will be able to
  • No, they deserved to be put in front of a firing squad, if not... imprisoned.
  • if she was hot, then yes. i would ;)
  • have done.
  • I still wish my attacker a unhappy life....enough said...
  • hell no

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