I'm feeling so helpless. My boyfriend's grandma is in the hospital and it's not looking too good for her. His mom just tried to commit suicide. And, he's getting ready to go to jail for 6 months just for speeding!! What can I do to make him feel better?
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Hold him, and tell him to just have an emotional blow out. Have a box of tissues ready. Tell him it's OK to cry. Call one of his buddies and explain the situation, and ask him to be available. As you go through life, you learn that even guys cry. I've had my share of emotional dumps and I feel no less manly.
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If you really love him tell him you'll visit his granny, his mum and him for as long as they need you. Don't make promises you can't keep tho'! Tell him you have a future together if you both wish it and that life is a learning curve. What can you both learn from all this unhappiness? Perhaps he will realize it's about choices in the end and that will make him stronger.
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Have sex with him. That always makes any man feel better.
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Well, you can re-assure him he isn't going to jail for speeding for starters. It is always nice to have a nice quiet meal in a darkened corner of a deserted restaurant or at home followed by some gettin' lucky. Aside from that, $hit happens and it can only get worse if he lets it. Pay the speeding fines, support him, offer to do something fun with him and his mom and go with him to visit grandma.
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The best thing that you could do is just be with him. Let him know that you are there for him. Now, there may be times where he wants (or needs) to be alone. Don't get upset, that's just something that guys do. When he is ready to talk though, make sure that you're right by his side listening to every word he says.
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Just be there for him. How do you get 6 moths for as speeding ticket?
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