It feels like i can only make myself orgasm threw masturbation, and when me and my boyfriend have sex i dont know if it feels as good for me as it does to him... its mostly just to please him :) is there any thing i can do to make me orgasm durng sex?
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alright, theres a few things you can do... 1)buy ribbed condoms 2)try to go harder/faster 3)try more foreplay 4)uh... fake it till ya make it... XD or theres always number 5... 5)find a "bigger" boyfriend. lol
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i think you are just focusing on how to make him feel good. this will never make you come. you need to get a bit selfish.. as for this 'harder, faster'.. eh, maybe for a male but not for a female. the key is to spend a lot of time on foreplay.. do everything for as long as you can stand it before you have sex. then when you are having sex, make it slow so you can 'feel' everything. instead of the usual thrusting that DOES NOT HIT ANY SPOTS.. try rotating or rocking movements that create more friction against your clitoris. don't be afriad to use toys or positions. the CAT postion is a good one for female orgasms. but above all, you gotta let go and start concentrating on what makes you feel good and concentrate on how turned on you are. and do not be afraid to tell him what you want him to do, or where to touch you, in what way and for how long.. he'll probably appreciate it anyway!! most guys, just guess and would like a bit of coaching so they can be secure in the knowledge that they re doing it right!! :-)
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U reach a orqasm thru masterbation because YOU know exactly what YOU want. Let your bf take some time out 2 pleasure you. Show him what you like because penetration alone miqht not do the job. I hope everythinq works out =]
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