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  • We'll it seems he's a little insecure. What would happen if he falls in love with her? That's why some times the fantasy is better than reality because in reality you have no control over the outcome. This could ruin a relationship or strengthen it. Do you do things subconsciously to make him feel insecure? You might not realize it but you may be doing things to keep him under control for some reason and that makes him insecure. I would say before you attempt a threesome strengthen your bond with each other so that you both go into this emotionally prepared.
  • My suggestion is if there are insecurities, a couple shouldn't go through with the 3some. You either need to resolve the insecurities or, if they never will be resolved, don't do the 3some. You need to have a long open conversation about this, expressing concerns and explaining how you feel about everything involved. Also, with the bisexuality thing, there are some women who are bi but only want/can do/have actually relationships with men; yes, they're into both men and women sexually but not women for relationships (some, not all, I don't want anyone coming back and accusing me of stuff). So if you're a bi woman who only likes women for sexual reasons and not relationships, let him know that.
  • First thing you have to do is talk about it. but only and only if you want this to. if you both think your relationship is strong enough and you both think the same make ground rules and talk about what you both want from it. do not do this while having sex as in the heat of passion things get said that aren't ment.
  • First of all seems to me like communication is a problem for you because you are discussing this item that should be private with complete strangers.. Having said that nobody on here is required to give good advice...we could all be giving horrible relationship ending advice just because people are cruel and like to see other people suffering(ever slow down to look at a traffic accident I rest my case) Just stop take a breath and analyize how you think both of you will feel towards the other afterwards. Whats been seen once can't be unseen...just remember that and it will help you with your choice. BTW my wife and I engage in threesomes all the time and she is by sexual and into women sexually but wants no part of a serious relationship with a woman for the very real reason that women are too emotional.
  • My wife and I have been sharing with our friends for more than 25 years. We have done very thing from just watching each other, MM to all four of us in bed together - I can't tell you how much we enjoy our time together.

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