Twelve years ago when i was in college i met a girl and we lasted 6 years until she decided that our relationship was not as important as her career, then she went with an old teacher and became her lover, it was a shock for me because we were compromised and i really loved her and i never cheated when i have the opportunity because i was idealistic and wanted to believe. After all this time i have rediscovered my real vocation and all i can tell you is that with delusions comes opportunities to learn. It wasn`t easy because i was depressed but i fought it and today i`m hard as a rock . The trick is not to become unsensitive or to seek revenges because you will end feeling worse. Now i have been with more women and i feel fine you know? i don`t need compromise to feel good anymore, at least not the kind of traditional compromise. I can tell you i have a good emotional life because i am honest with the people i love and that`s it. Now i`m more focused on me without being egocentrical and i`m developing talents that i didn`t knew i had in myself. Try for yourself to have a pet, meet different people, a change of hobbies an a self centered attitude. That will pull out the best in you and when you became complete with yourself and opened your sight you will surely find someone to be on long term, someone who fits yourself because sometimes we want what we can`t have or what doesn`t want us. We have to look for our place in the world of love, sex and friendship. Cheer up and go listen some music or hang out with friends. Don`t let illusions die because of any recent problem.

Don't let bedtime disillusions create daytime confusions everybody gets hurt success is the best revenge get better and better and better and better and better one day at a time

Wow. My answer is much shorter. I think I said (or at least said many months/years later) "WTF!?" Yah, it was years later now that I think aboutit...

I said..."...huh huh huh I've uhm.....", seriously I was stupified when love struck so hard, I actually ran into walls a few times when I fell in love just because I was lost in the moment. +3 for a good question.

He moved 3 hours away but continued to encourage me to drive up and see him on weekends - he didn't have the guts to break up with me. (And I was too crazy-in-love stupid to see that I had lost him.) He FINALLY told me he had been seeing someone almost since he moved there. My heart hurt so badly I thought it would either explode or collapse and I would surely die. He was very kind about it. When he hugged me goodbye, the lame thing that popped out of my mouth was, "Does this mean we can't touch peepees anymore when we hug?" To say the least, it broke the tension and we laughed so hard we would have cried if we hadn't been already. It still took me a year to get over him. I am so sorry for your pain, Royal!

my heart is breaking and i am really speechles... but inside my head, my thoughts are: 'The HELL with HIM for breaking my heart!'

I became very depressed, and it was very hard to come out of it. Eventually I did and met somone else who I love dearly.

Nothing.