I just learned I'm pregnant for the second time in three months. In November I lost my first baby. I just learned I was pregnant again a few days ago and I'm afraid to let my family know because when I told my mom I lost the baby she didn't seem to care.

Aw that's heartbreaking, I know. There is no reason to say anything right now. Just wait until you are ready. Until recently, women couldn't even be certain they were pregnant until they were about 3 months along. Don't rush into spreading this joyous news until you feel it's right.

I don't know what to say about your mother's reaction. I'm sorry she seems to not care. Maybe you should talk to her about it. There might be a legitimate reason for her reaction. Good luck with your new baby. :)

I'm happy and sad for you, sweetie. Try not to stress about such things! Perhaps you can keep this a little secret between you and your man until after your first trimester? And congratulations on your pregnancy. ;-)

I'm really glad to hear your pregnant again. My wife and I went throught the same ups and downs. As for your mother you never can know. Everyone deals with death a certain way. My mother in law was all over the place and frantic when we gave her bad news but my mother was calm and collect. Knowing my mother she felt sad inside but she is also very private in certian matters especially if it doesn't directly effect her. She feels that because it is my wife and I who really feel the hurt that she will stay strong for us in the chance we need her. If your worried to tell her ask yourself this. Would it hurt you more if you are once again disappointed in your mothers reaction to bad news or would not telling her hurt her feeling so much that you create more problems between you on the subject.

It almost feels like your in a loose loose situation. at least from the info I know of. Its best to weigh you options and go with the option you loose the less in.

Congratulations and good luck! Take it easy and follow the dr.'s orders to a T! I'm not sure what the safe point is, but I'd wait to tell anyone until then, well, besides your husband! You'll need his support! That should help ease your stress and that will help your pregnancy! I don't know your mom, but maybe she didn't want to make a big deal. Some people handle stress and bad news in weird ways. She may have had no idea how to react. I know it's difficult, but don't let it get you down!