I've only ever had one gf.. for 7 years.. I'm 23. Now that i'm older . I feel like i'm missing out on a lot of experiences with dating.... shes a great girl but I'm not sure if shes really right for me since she's all I've known I cant compare.onlyliveonc
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that happened to me when i was 19 20ish...it was time for me to move on. I'm glad i did. I'm really really happy and have dated people and got to know what i liked and what I hated in a person to date. I think it's a good thing that you are thinking about getting out there and meeting new girls. There's nothing wrong with that
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I will answer this from the perspective of someone who has been with the same guy for the past 18 years (since I was about 16 or 17!). I did have dates with other guys, but he is the only one I went steady with. We married very young (at 21) and are currently in our 30's. I love my husband very much and don't regret staying with him. However, there are times when I think of some of the other guys that I dated and wonder what life would be like had I given them more of a chance. If you feel that this girl is the love of your life then look no further. But if you feel something is lacking then better to look now instead of waiting another 10 years only to find you regret the decisions you made.
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There's nothing wrong with dating only one preson, but you have to decide whether you see a future with your girlfriend. Love isn't something you comparison shop. Love is somethign you feel internally and is the result of your compatibility with your partner. You should have the answers you need already inside you. If you think your feelings for your girlfriend may not be deep enough for a lasting commitment, then maybe it's time to branch out. In doing so, you risk losing your partner. Yet you may find someone else. Good luck.
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Forget that "only live once" thing. If you found a girl who loves you and adores you and is willing t put up with your crap, think twice before going out and sowing oats you don't really have. Society is built to tell you that what you have now is not good enough. Resist the urge to move on until you have filtered all other noise and your heart still tells you to move on.
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What if you let her go to realize later that she was the one and you lost her? Everyone is always looking for that something better when the best just may be on their lap already.
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I know exactly what you mean. I am 23 also and I was with only one guy for 5 1/2 years. We even got married, but over that time period I learned we weren't meant to be. I mean if you are even doubting if she is right for you, chances are she is not. I found out the hard way. But, now I am very much in love and I have completely different feelings for him. We have the most passionate feelings and the most amazing connection. You need to do what feels right in your heart and their should be no doubts. Hope this helps! Good luck!
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Forget this problem, just get marry and you will prosper and be happy, take my words. Just don't date and f around. RK
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you know I thought the same thing I met my husband when I was 14 and people said it would not last and we should see other people. But the fact of the matter is that we really loved each other and did not care. Of course you are going to feel like that because you never dated anyone else trust me you are not missing anything, if you do love this girl stay with her because she know you and really care for you its not always greener on the other side. I am 25 now and still with the same man I met at 14. Not only he is my husband he is my friend too. And I wouldn't change it for the world.
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I've only had one girlfriend (now wife) for 45 years and I have no complaints.
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If you have any doubts about being with your girlfriend, you need to do something about it. However, if your intent is to do a lot of dating to see how that compares to your girlfriend, you need to understand that she is entitled to do the same thing. Think about what you feel about that. After some time you may decide that she is the one for you, but she may reach an entirely different conclusion.
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if your not happy then you should move on, but it is kinda hard to move on when you been with someone for so long, she could be the one for you and then you just let her go too sew your oats. But if you are wanting something different, you need to move on so you don't cheat on this girl and end up losing her for good.
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Ive only had one boyfriend for 4 years, and he decided he didnt want just me and said he didnt see himself marrying me, coz he wants to be alone. You know it kills because its a long time and we were soo close. To do this 2 ure gf would kill her, that doesnt mean to say u shuldnt do wat will make you happy but u have to think how she feels and what she wants to because she loves you. As people have said it may look greener on the otherside but it probably isnt. I am experiencing this from the other side and its the most horrible thing ever xx
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