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Put things on your calendar -- make dates with friends -- and don't forget to schedule "alone time" for yourself, time to do your laundry etc etc etc. You might have to reschedule some of your routine just so it interferes with his schedule.
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I've been there done that ( except w/out the 2 girls). Married for a long time and then about two years without female companionship (and I just don't mean sex). Anyway, dating later in life isn't like high school. Sex is a given and generally happens a lot faster. I actually was clueless to this fact and very apprehensive about going to bed, and after two months she asked me ( a pleasant surprise I might add):)I guess the question is what's slow? Don't waste too much time you could lose him. What's the worst that can happen...you guys part ways. It's only sex, and maybe you'll even get an orgasm for the road.
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Tell him you are not interested in a floundering single parent looking for a surrogate mother. Either he slows it down to your comfort level or break it off and don't look back. Desperation is NEVER attractive.
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you are going to have to understand his situation. the first time hes dated ANYONE in three years. yes, hes gonna want to move fast. talk to him, tell him you really do want to move slowly. just be sympathetic to the situation and do as PB told you; dont be afraid to move him around in your schedule! =]
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