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That depends, do you think for yourself or do as your friends wish you to do? Only you know the full extent of what is happening in your relationship and your friend is only getting your side of it which you must admit will be biased, even unintentionally. If someone comes to you often with sob stories about their relationship most people woudl probably say leave, do you also tell him all the good things that happen?
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People have told me I should leave him/I deserve better/they want to see me happy/etc. The thing is I am happy and I don't want to leave him and I don't want to meet anyone better. I just don't listen to them. How should you take it? Sure, it would be a good idea to listen to your friend, but don't do what you decide to do just because your guy friend told you to. Do what you want to do because you want to. :)
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Stop involving your guy friend in your relationship fights/arguments.It is not his bussiness and will make the boyfriend jealous for no reason. I have many guy friends and they know nothing about my hubby and I. A relationship is private and needs to remain so. How is your friend suppose to look at your boy friend after he hears some secret or details of a fight? When you ask someones oppinion why are you surprized to hear it???Write all your problems down and then reread them and see if you can figure out your own feelings about any arguments.We need to be able to vent but a true friend will not give his thoughts out.Who knows you may break up and then get back together and then the guy friend will feel bad.
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