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The thing about this situation is, men are typically very insecure. So since he is going to be away from you for an extended period of time he probably has this crazy subconscious idea that your going to cheat. I'm willing to bet he already has a jealousy problem when you want to go somewhere with friends at night or something. <by the way, i'm a guy myself.>
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i was seeing a guy for 6 months, he's a marine deploying for 7 months this spring too. he just suddenly stopped calling (his way of dumping me i guess) anyway - i know i got dumped for the same reason you did - girls usually cheat when their boyfriends deploy cause the girl gets lonely, hits it off with some other guy, & cheats. by dumping you, he's protecting himself from possibly getting hurt. i know exactly how you feel hun because i'm going through the same thing =( it sucks
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i think you should take this "break" time to focus on yourself and your personal life. If your two are truly meant to be together and really share somehting special then when he returns from deployment you two can continue your relationship. This is a huge test for the both of you so since you have no choice on telling him not to go you might as well make the best of it. My boyfriend is curently in Iraq, he deployed 3 months ago. We stayed together and yes I will admit it's very hard to keep your relationship together but we are making it just fine. Lots of letters, packages and he is able to call me about 3 times a week, somethimes more. Even if you two are on a break and you still care for him you can be there for his support and write him a letter every once in a while and let him know you still care. Good luck sweetie, just listen to our heart, that's the best advice i was ever given. Don't be influenced by other.
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