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Do you mean two strangers that fight end up as friends? I think it has something to do with pride and ego. Mens tempers flair quickly and cool quickly. Women simmer and stew for ages and then we explode when you least expect it and we take forever to forgive and forget. Guys may fight, then cool down and stop worrying about what the fight was about. They often find they were angry at someone who they perceived some imagined threat or insult from and when the air is cleared, they are close enough to see the other guy isn't so bad after-all. May be the fighting is a form of venting - letting off steam, and then you feel pretty good when it is done and that is a good time to build friendships. It's brain chemistry, most likely. We are just different creatures.
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I think the fight wasn't really based on any thing of great importance. Sounds like when my cats mix it up and roll around, just something they do.
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Maybe it has something to do with the saying: "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer"
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see that doesnt sound right i dont get you guys if a 2 girls did that they would want to kill each still no friends about it...i have no idea it must just be a guy thing :)
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I have actully had this exact situation happen to me but it involved my girlfriend. We got into a huge angry fight, the kind where you hate eachother when its going on. Immediately after the fight we both realized that we were argueing about something completely stupid and we felt great now that all of our aggression was out. That was kind of a big moment in the relationship. I also had the experence of 2 years of backyard wrestling type swordfighting, normally it was only me and another guy who were ever up for it and we would almost always go home bloody bruised and better friends.
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dont know. most of my friends started off with us not liking each other (never a fight, i'm a girl and i would get hurt)I hated my b/f when i met him, he was mean to me...funny
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well.. im a girl, and i think girls tend to hold grudges longer than guys do. guys fight and get it over with. girls fight, and it just keeps going on.
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