My fiance and I are getting married soon, and wants to wait until we are married before we have sex. I am not a virgin nor have I ever had sex with a virgin. My fiance however is a virgin. What should I expect when it happens? ( pain,
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women do often bleed and are in pain you just need to take it slowly and gently men i dont think will be in pain
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When you have sex with her, she might be void of all knowledge. She might be scared, nervous or frightened. She might not know what to do or how to react to the sight of your manhood. So, go slow, be understanding and look to her needs first. If it were me, I would start with kisses, cuddling, loving and seeing to her satisfaction, first. Then, go slow and realize that she is going to be very tight and in pain if you do not allow her body time to adjust to your size and motion. So, go slow, and give her muscles time to adjust to your manhood inside her body. Go slow!
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Expect it to be a big emotional thing for her, but do not expect much sexually. You're going to have to teach her how to fuck. You're going to have to teach her to love sex. Be patient. Bring her along. But don't expect much up front. But she'll learn if you lead her.
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He'll probably cum pretty quickly- have him communicate when he might be close and then back off, maybe even until he gets a bit limp, then go at it again, then stop, again and stop.. it's a technique for making guys last longer and it's supposed to improve climax
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A girl's 1st time can be super painful or a little painful. The guy I lost my virginity to cared about my feelings and wanted me to have a great 1st time, so it only hurt for 7-9 seconds and then it felt OK. Try putting your thing in at different angles; try as many as you need until you get the right 1. Having sex for the 1st time for me was a big emotional change, in a good way, but it was still a change. You'll probably feel weird about it too. Just remember go slow, try as many angles as needed until you get the right 1, and remember tell her to COMMUNICATE with you well. Let her know not to feel ashamed or embarassed to tell you it hurts too much. Good Luck!
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lots of foreplay is the answer. If she is tense, tell her its ok you will stop as soon as she asks AND DO IT that way she will relax more and let you try again.Take as much time as she needs, you have all your lives. before you. Gentle stretching by you may help. It IS an invasion and it takes time to adjust. She may have no pain at all. doesnt mean she is not a virgin. Virginity refers to the state of never having had intercourse. Dont confuse it with having an intact hymen. not the same thing. If she is happy to be on top she can control the depth of penetration for herself. Its not usually painful next time.
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