If a guy tries to get a girl in bed the same day they met, should the girl take this as a compliment?

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• well it is complementary. Complemantary sex!

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  by somerandom on June 1st, 2008

• What kind of a women would seriously take that as a compliment? A guy will try to take anything to bed. Come on think! Its like feeling special because a dog just ate left overs from a meal you spent hours preparing. The Dog drinks out of the toilet, why would you feel special?!

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  by no_one_special on October 8th, 2008

• He's probably desperate like a fucking pervert that keeps his own 'Body Count' If you know what I mean. Anyway, NO! This is not a compliment this guy just wants sex and thats it

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  by Ownster on November 7th, 2008

• well, not all guys will try to get ANYTHING into bed. most guys try and get attractive women into bed
  if he tries to get you into bed, he thinks your attractive
  thinking your attractive is a compliment
  derp.

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  by SigFreud27 on June 22nd, 2009

• When the word ANYTHING is used it is not to be understood as a rotting guinea pig corpse will do. No person that has a brain is suggesting that. So it is superfluous that you mention that.
  A guy will get off using his hand, so using a women is a step up. So no it is not a compliment by any reasonable standard. People give compliments verbally as well. This does not mean they are sincere either. It can be to gain something. A means to an end, like sex.

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  by no_one_special on June 26th, 2009

• derp.

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  by SigFreud27 on June 29th, 2009

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• You tell em honey;)

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  by gtravels loves her life penguin on January 12th, 2008

• not CLOSE to a compliment

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  by lolololhehe on January 31st, 2009

• Hahaha! Awesome answer.

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  by Ditto on June 11th, 2009

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• First welcome to AB Secondly that is an excellent answer. I wish more women respected themselves the way you obviously do.

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  by asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson on January 12th, 2008

• Or he's just really horny.

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  by claymore04 on July 22nd, 2008

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• haha, yeh cos when i meet a girl i think.man all i wanna do is get out my pen an paper and solve the big bang mystery with her.silly bitch!

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  by greenboy on October 16th, 2008

• he's an ass simply because he wants to have sex? He's a man, it's normal to want to have sex with a woman. And what if the girl wants it to? I would take it as a compliment that I am so freakin hot, which I am. That doesn't mean you have to give in and have sex. There's such a thing as "no." Now if you say no, and he doesn't ask you out again, then he IS an ass. But just wanting to have sex doesn't mean he doesn't like you or want to get to know you better. He's just horny, like all men. It's up to you if you want to be an object or a victim

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  by Anonymous on July 29th, 2009

• Dude listen to yourself any real self respecting man would know how to cotrol himself and wouldn't do shit like that. Real men don't try to get a girl into bed with them on date number one. Anyone who would pull that shit is not a real man but a little boy who never grew the fuck up and is only capable of letting his cock do his thinking for him instead of the head on his shoulders that God gave him.

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  by Touch_of_The_Masters_Hand on July 30th, 2009

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• not true at all. sometimes lightening strikes

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  by Possum on January 12th, 2008

• demanda, I agree with you.

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  by Yarnlady is happy every day on January 12th, 2008

• i wasn't implying that i would make a pass-or whatever it's called now-on the first date routinely. in this case it just happened
  but i had a great relationship (with a PhD pyscologist) that started on the first night.

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  by Possum on January 12th, 2008

• If the girl is into it as well, that's perfectly fine. But the question said the guy TRIES to get her in bed, which sounds kind of manipulative and selfish to me.

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  by Miss Awesome on January 12th, 2008

• i think we're talking the same language

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  by Possum on January 12th, 2008

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• true that!
  but it also depends on the nature of the phone call
  is it that he wants it actually mean sumthing or
  is it that hez just giving u another booty call?

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  by Anonymous on March 19th, 2008

• hate to say it, but rare is the guy who respects a girl no matter how ez she puts out. It's true some guys will try to get you into bed right away...MORE follow the pattern that, if they reeeely like you, they want to wait awhile. Trust your instincts...also ask yourself...if he tries to get YOU into bed that fast...you're not the only...

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  by Raggedy Ann on December 1st, 2009

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• or how about she respects herself more and doesn't have potentially risky sex

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  by Emorchards on March 14th, 2009

• Either one.

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  by atreadia on March 16th, 2009

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• The defining compliment, indeed

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  by Jodie44 on May 25th, 2008

• Haha. :)

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  by Done. never again. on August 15th, 2008

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• how do you find that as a compliment if the guy is just in it for sex

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  by x Ghost x on July 28th, 2008

• because for me, it IS a compliment that someone finds me attractive. Be honest, when you go on a date, do you cover up from head to toe? No, you try your best to look cute. Why? So he'll find you attractive? YES! that doesn't mean you have to have sex.

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  by Anonymous on July 29th, 2009

• just an informative-seeking question.

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  by x Ghost x on October 22nd, 2009

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• TRUE

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  by ally tennant on June 6th, 2008

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• I think you handled that rather well....

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  by csimme01 and Ninja Cooper UNMASKED on March 1st, 2008

• <In very calm voice> Thank you...

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  by BabyRottweiler on March 1st, 2008

• whoa.. love the transformation from a lil pup, tooo a GRRRRRRRR, hugo... lol

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  by Shaz4726 on March 7th, 2008

• Thanks... it was a question that just triggered a few long-buried memories, and it didn't make me feel warm and fuzzy when I realized they weren't buried deep enough!

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  by BabyRottweiler on March 8th, 2008

• You go, Girl.... lol

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  by Angel711 on August 2nd, 2008

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• how long?

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  by Possum on January 12th, 2008

• Why whats the rush?? Try being a friend first.

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  by anonymous on January 12th, 2008

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• omg, we have Mrs Einstein here!

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  by greenboy on October 16th, 2008

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• I know lots of guys who will go to bed with any girl, regardless of her appearance, so it`s not necessarily complimenting her attractiveness.

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  by Oor Galooly - on May 24th, 2008

• That's why I said perhaps :)

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  by Little Miss Dangerous on May 24th, 2008

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• aaaand that is a good answer there AK!
  Excellent...:)

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  by LeeLee Chickybabe Avenger SLAB on February 29th, 2008

• thanks,

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  by ak_spook on March 1st, 2008

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• I don't? Suppose I didn't want sex? Could I still have the easy girl?

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  by Zack on February 22nd, 2008

• uhh ya

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  by Skin and thin on February 22nd, 2008

• Good answer!

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  by ninja man on February 23rd, 2008

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• whoa! i think it's horny and induced by chemical reactions within the human body, but to each their own, i suppose.

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  by zee-ster on February 22nd, 2008

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• you'd be insulted? i can't decided how i feel about that. hmm.

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  by zee-ster on February 22nd, 2008

• you must act like we are the only girl in the room - but we dont want you slipping us tongue on the first date

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  by rigby on February 26th, 2008

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• Good answer +2

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  by Dodgy Dog in a Sable COAT on June 11th, 2009

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