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  • Absolutely, yes.
  • I think so. This guy came into my bosses' office last year and he was smart, funny and confident. He was also in his 50's balding and a little on the chubby side. Turns out he is an attorney and I met his younger and very sweet wife, so I guess looks don't count for everything.
  • Yes, confidence is very powerful as long as they dont love them self too much and have a big ego. confidence makes someone attractive they are giving out some sign that they are something special and whatever it is makes them attractive even though they may not look it. Your eyes adjust and they become attractive to you. If they have humour I think it comes across even quicker. Humour and confidence are two attractive qualities together. Now whether what I have typed makes sense I dunno, but i know what im rabbiting on about.
  • Healthy confidence makes a guy sexy no matter how he looks.
  • yes but you cant over do it.
  • Confidence: THAT'S what makes a guy really sexy.
  • Absolutely! Confidence is key. Its a large part of attraction to men whether they are good looking or not.
  • That is one sure way to win me over, not to be confused with arrogance.
  • yep throw in a little humor as well
  • Oh yea! Regardless of looks you MUST be a strong, confident male to get and keep my attention. If your hot great, if your not still great, and if you make me laugh OMG that seals the deal.
  • Confidence goes waaaay farther than looks in my book. Looks, age with time. Who he is.. is who he is.
  • Confidence that comes from well balanced self-esteem and a satisfaction about life is always good. Arrogance is not
  • As long as they don't overdo to the point of arrogance, yes confidence can be very sexy.
  • Absolutely, confidence is very helpful when it comes to attraction. I personally don't like guys who are not sure of themselves.
  • Well, I sure do. I can't stand it when a man (or anyone, for that matter) is always down about himself and everything else.
  • Absolutely! From personal experience, of being quite an unattractive guy, confidence is the key. I didn't used to be confident at all, but when I had a good look at myself and my strengths, and overcame my insecurities (my looks inparticular), the confidence began to pour out and I could see the difference in every interaction. People are more friendly, more respectful..and the response from women..wow, that was a shocker ;) Looks REALLY don't matter, I am living proof :) For all those who feel down, here's a tip, write down your strengths, your skills, your positive personality traits, read them every single day and just try to make yourself smile. Especially read the list when you feel that insecurity, and over time, you will see the difference. Become truly happy with yourself, and watch how the world reacts. Hope I helped, good luck!
  • oh yeah big time.

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