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It really is hard but you have to be strong and pray. I really wish I had not ignored the warning signs and dumped my now husband and moved on before now. Believe me it's really much harder later. Best wishes and you will be in my prayers
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Because you let yourself get attached to him, and love him. Two years is a long time to put trust in someone, and sex leads to attachment for most women. I am dealing with the same problem, but in contrast I want to not talk to him. Remember that you are worth something, and he didn't respect you or treat you like a lady.
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Because we cant stand the thought of being rejected, but by obsessing and emailing you are allowing him to continue to reject you. There is a man out there who will treasure every moment he is able to spend with you. And, you aren't going to let him in because you're hung up on this other guy. (Please believe, I know this to be true!) He cheated on you twice...he'll do it again. Why would you want him back?
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You think you love him, and yes, maybe you were in love with him, but he chose to break that love and move on. now it's your turn. No matter how much you love him it will never change the fact that he hurt you like he did. It will never feel better, the only option is to find someone else that will actually love you back and not hurt you. Find someone who is actually a good person and not a total loser. Someone who will love you for you.
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He cheated on you, it's time to forget about him and move on with your life. Don't waste anymore time, you will regret it and will kick yourself in the butt like Anonymous said above.
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You can't forget about him, because you care about him and when someone hurts you like he did, it takes time to move on. But thats my only advice for you, just give it time and don't be afraid to still have feelings for him because its only natural, and one day you'll realise that he's not worth it. But until that day comes there isn't much you can do! I hope that day comes sooner than later for you!! Good luck.
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'Cause you care about him and you may still be "in love" with him.
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Love becomes blind and ignorance hides.
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We all want what we CAN'T have, so to speak! But the MORE you chase him. . . . .the LESS desirable you appear to him! Guys PREFER to be the pursuers. . . . . .AND I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH THEY PROFESS OTHERWISE! Don't believe them! You CHASE them. . . . .they'll "use" you and then they're off to find someone they have "work" for! It's the "thrill" of the chase! And YOU'RE . . . .no "challenge". . . . .AT ALL!
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Look at yourself in the mirror and know you are better than that. Why be with someone who has zero respect for you and at this point you should have zero for him. Time heals, bottom line.
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